About two months ago my girlfriend and I split up because her family was going to kick her out for spending so much time over at my house. Anyways, we still talk through messenger and occasional emails. I sent her an email asking her if the friend she was texting when we were talking online was a guy, and she got pissed. I told her it was because I didn't just want to bump into them as we live in a small town, and I would rather her tell me online. She refused to say if she has a new man. Am I asking to much? I do not want details just to know if she is dating anyone, someone said I should give her space but we only talk online although its like everyday since we split. How do I do I give her more space? Should I not log in for awhile, I need some opinions and advice here!Try this again but shorter,, ladies any help/advice!?!?
Well I agree with wanting to know straight from her if she's with someone else....I'd hate to bump into them (if she does have someone) accidentally.
But if she doesn't want to tell you, she doesn't have to....coz tough as it seems, its none of your business anymore. You've already asked her once, so back off now.
And hey, you know that this may be a possibility, so you're kinda already prepared for the fact tht she may be with someone else. Give yourself time to get over her....talking online everyday won't help with that, so ease off slowly...and look around you....I'm sure you'll meet someone else yourself.Try this again but shorter,, ladies any help/advice!?!?
You need to give her space and respect her parents wishes. I'm sure it is hard on her too and if you two are meant to be together then in time you will be...
u can both talk on headphns through yahoo messenger only because chatting and talking on the phn are diff.by this perhaps u can give her more space and understand her properly.and oviuosly u have to respect her parents wishes
back off, let her come to you, don't talk to her for a while and see what happens...don't hurt yourself like this, maybe its time you started to think about moving on also
Friends have a right to know such things about other friends.
And if you think that you spilt up then you are lying to yourselves.
How can you split up with some one and then talk everyday after.
well shes either being stubborn cuz she got offended that u asked her that or she is talking to someone else and didnt want to say it, she could have just as easily said it was a girl. small town u should be able to find out easy enough just talk to a couple friends and see what ya find out, if you are already split up what do u have to lose?
Hi, do you still like her? If not, why wld you want to keep in contact with her still and chat everyday? If that's the case, you guys shdn't have break up, I guess it's an emotional, physical and mentally torment for you. Well, since you've agreed to the split up, you shd be prepare she'll find a new guy in no time. You shdn't even have ask her if she's talking or seeing someone lately. She has her own time and space to do whatever she wants now. You've no right in probing her. What I'm trying to tell you is, maybe you can tell her directly that you still have feelings for her and ask if she's feeling the same way too. If her answer is no, just let her go and get your own life! Then, she's not worth your time asking so many questions and in the end, making yourself hurt! Not only that, you're making yourself looking like a loser and making yourself like a fool. Try to talk to her nicely and see how things go, good luck %26amp; bye!
give her a break what will be will be
yeah mate, give her some space, maybe go out with a few girls yourself, give her some time and freedom, maybe thats all she needs.....
MOVE ON AND GOOD LUCK !!!
You should give her the space that is needed. You may be coming off as the jealous type by asking about the other person. Don't read so much into it. Let it be.%26gt;
go online and talk to her as never happend ....you didnt ask too much but maybe she expected you to trust her more than this....knowing about her is ok but controling her is wrong.
Give her space and remember, if she care for you, you would not have been replaced so fast...also...a girl can use parents as an excuse when they don't want to ';own'; the situation....so? Plus if they did not accept you, they likely never will!!! AND yes....STOP emailing her...put a vacation response on your email address for her address...let her wonder----keep your self respect!
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