Thursday, December 31, 2009

Help! advice on how to heal....?

i haven't allowed anyone in for well... many many many years. i finally did and i have to let go now. i don't know how .... how to be ok and how to heal.... can anyone help me ? advice?Help! advice on how to heal....?
well i mean


its going to be hard but you


just have too. its something


you have to work at. but i mean just


give yourself time to heal


dont try and date anyone and just go


out and try to have fun. get out of the house


and dont think about him as much.


eventually you will let go it


will be so hard trust me but it has to be done


it will take a while but you will get over this and when


you do you will probably feel like never


letting anyone in ever again, but wrong way to feel


now's the time to slowly start dating again


making sure you take it slow


day by day. tell him and make sure he understands


you need to learn how to let him in


and that he should take it slow with you


but make sure you have the right guy


or atleast one you knoe is going


to stay around for a while.


okay?





its still going to be hard.


the pain never really fully


goes away but you will be


much happier once you get over him


and let somone else in


make sure he's the right guy though


and, never give up.


okay no matter how hard it gets


always remeber tommorow is another day


; )Help! advice on how to heal....?
This is just the way life is sometimes. We all just have to be grown-ups and move on with our lives when things like this happen. It's the only way you'll survive. People come and go from our lives and we just have to remember that they were there for a reason. Learn from your mistakes and do better the next time around - that's all you can do.
Hey everyone goes through this in one way or another but the best thing is to accept it and let it go. Dont seat there and try to answer all the questions which do not need any answer from anyone. Forget and move on, you have to enjoy your life because its too short to stick to things which will drain yourself. Cheers

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