Ok guys, I really need your help/advice here?

There's this[really shy] guy......in the begginning of the year I found out from one of my friends that he had a crush on me. I'd never really noticed him before [he goes to my church] and would've never really taken a double glance at him, had it not been for the fact he had a crush on me. Ok so a couple of months go by and I'm still pretty confused about my feelings for him. I guess I really did like him in the beggining, and he sort of grew on me. I'm not allowed to date till I'm 16, but he told me he'd wait for me. The point is, I've been telling everyone that I like him and he really likes me and he thinks I like him the same way, but the thing is, I just don't know how I feel about him. I'm so confused. He's got such a sweet personality...did I mention he's really shy? And he's so....inexperienced in bf/gf relationships [as am I] (meaning I'd be his first gf vice versa ect.) I know you can't really get into my head and say 'oh you like him' and all but from my POV wat would u do?Ok guys, I really need your help/advice here?
Well, I'm of two minds here. On one hand, I want to tell you that you are young and not to tie yourself down to one guy, because you don't want to miss any experiences. But, I think that's the mother in me talking.





The romantic side of me wants to tell you that I know from experience that the shy, nice, sweet guys are the best ones to date. They may not be as exciting or sauve as other guys, but they treat you so well and they aren't the type to hurt you. They make great first boyfriends. However, if you aren't ready to say you like him, then don't. Like isn't love though. They are two different things, but you should wait until you're sure to say either. These shy, nice, sweet guys can also be very sensative and you don't want to hurt him. He could turn out to be a great friend, instead of a boyfriend.Ok guys, I really need your help/advice here?
maybe you should give the guy a chance. you'll probally end up liking him more then any guys you probally dated. just give him a chance i'm sure he'll appreciate it.
just go out wit him---give him a chance ur parents dont have to find out
He sounds nice go 4 it.
blah blah.....after highschool he will be forgotten. trust me, its not that serious.
u dont haft to date to have a bf. just be a frien with benifites. just dont get caught and please have a lot of fun
first of all, no one can tell you how you feel.


my suggestion: try that relationship, things might work out... if you don`t, you will probably regret you didn`t at least try.


and try talking to your parents...
too long, couldnt read, sorry
You are not really intereted on him. just the fact he is interested on you make you feel flattered.Quote: I'd never really noticed him


before(he goes to my church) and would've never really taken a double glance at him, had it not been for the fact he had a crush on me. It seems he is your only option right now, Do Iam right?
Like. If you like him, he likes you, and he's waiting for you, it might be a bit rude for you to dump him for the more experienced ';Hunk'; that you would like to go around with.





Shyness is a prob. , but since you find it adorable?





Anyways, he doesn't seem to be the bad sort. His shyness could be an unwillingness to start, because he doesn't want to get hurt, but you have already told people you like him, and he knows it too, so it would be too harsh on him to dump him just like that. Wouldn't it?





But perhaps a surgeon'sblade is what is required. Tell him you can't go out with him, directly. Nah! Rarely it is that a surgeon's blade leaves no scar. Go out with him for some time, sound him out, and if you still don't feel anything for him, drop him.





And plz consider, what do you want from a guy? Men don't know what women want, but it is too much, if even Women don'tknow what they want. That reminds me, everyone seems to say that Men just want one thing. I don't think its true. Yes, at 1 point of time all men want it, but then, don't women want it too?
You got a GOOD relationship. So take it. There aren't very many nice guys left, you know *glares around room at certain targets*
since you guys have feelings for each other BUT yor not allowed to dat til' your sixteen. How bout you guys become Friends with Benefits...Your sharing your feelings for each other but just in case you get caught...Your just friends.
You sound like you really want to do the right thing here, and from my point of view, I think that I would wait, and honor my parents decision to not let me date until I was 16. Is Church a big thing in your life, if so I would suggest reading the Josh Harris books on dating. It has a Christian perspective on dating, and about making smart decisions that you won't regret later. Crushes come and go, and they can be powerful things, but you have to remember the guy as well, and maybe you won't hurt this time, but he might if you mess up. I think it is good that you are thinking about these things, it shows your maturity!
go out with him and give it a chance
Go for it
just softly let him notice u are there and i guess just wait til you are allowed to date..
Drop the loser and get yourself a man.
well give it a try but dont take advantage of the situation because remeber u are not allowed to date until you are 16 hey proberly you will send me a wedding invitation the next couple of years
i think that you should not think about him and go out with me and ill show you how to have a good time. give it a thought. i am 16 too. can i get your number
He s nice he likes u and u like him so go for it and since both of you dont have good experience in the bf/gf stuff just grow on each other and then u can enjoy your relationship
You should both go for it, it good to begging with the other part as a beginner. Go for it, and let your self loose and let yourself to like him.
let em get sum action