How do you handle a player? Help...Advice?

This guy I really really like told me he recently told me that he likes me too. Last year we wrote back and forth, but I had to quit because of some personal stuff. I still liked him, I just couldn't write; he didn't know that and got really upset. Within one month he had another girlfriend. She dropped him cold in a very viscous way. This year he finally found out the real reason I had to quit writing and everything worked out. Now we both like eachother and he's really sweet to me. We're writing again. Last night to play a kind of joke my best friend called him and I was listening but he didn't know it...ya, uh-oh. She asked him if he liked this other girl who is a very good friend of mine. He hesitated and said that he did. He said she was funny and fun to be around, but that they were just friends. She asked if he still liked me and he immediately said yes, but...How can he like us both? He's sensitive so I don't want to confront him. I don't want a repeat of last year. What to do?How do you handle a player? Help...Advice?
you don't handle a player, you do not give them the time of day. it takes a player a long time to get out of the game and you don't want to be the one to sit there waiting on MR PLAYER.


take it from me, been there - done that- don't want anyone else to go through it.How do you handle a player? Help...Advice?
Girl find someone else, you are better than that.
it is very possible to like more than one person, he did say she was just a friend right? he hesitated because guys aren't stupid, he knows you put her up to it, would you rather of had him say he hated her? Stop playing those petty games and grow up
Secrets, secrets, secrets... and what does all the messing around get you in the end? Nothing! If you can't be open and honest with the guy, then there's no hope of any kind of relationship.
rule #1...dont hate the player, hate the game
You don't!


Go to school, work hard, have fun!


The right one will come along in time.
i know guys like this...its normal..all guys r the same..their looks are jus so we can tell them apart...they all are players!! lol...if he dont know wat he wants then leave him alone for a given amount of time..he will realize he likes u and he will come back....
it's obviously not love because he wouldn't like another girl if it was. But even though u don't want to confront him it looks like you're going to have to. At least ask him if he's serious about you two. The both of you deserve to know.
Okay. Look. I'm not trying to take sides, but it's not his fault that he likes two girls. I mean... haven't you ever liked more than one guy at once? He's not committed to anyone, so he has the right to like more than one person. If you really like him, then you can try %26amp; win all of his heart. Become the only girl he wants! Be yourself %26amp; put yourself out there. Make him notice you %26amp; no one else. But if you don't like him a lot, then just forget about him. You can find someone else who likes you %26amp; only you.
You're making trouble where none exists. He said he liked the other girl as a friend. I've got male friends that are just a friend. It is possible so just stop playing games and enjoy time with him.
play him back, or just drop him.... honey there are plenty of other guys out there ...waiting to treat u like the princess you are
You could start by not playing games. Grow up.
The fact that ya'll did the 3 way thing will turn him off. If he likes you and is pursuing you and not your friend dont worry about it. Its just like he may introduce you to one of his friends that you may find attractive although you wouldnt pursue his friend. Stop playing games with men if you want them to take you seriously.
LEAVE HIM. go 4 someone else, k?
Wow, lame...





I only say that because he said that he likes her because she's funny and fun to be around ';but they are just friends';.





He said he likes you !!





Be happy with that, get close to him, make him like you if that's what you want. Give him reason to want you more than her, if you're in the picture and you were there first then your friend will understand and walk away or continue to see him behind your back.





You're going to have to gamble on this one, but my advice is to be such a great girl to him and you'll charm him.





Good luck!!!
don't hate the game hate the player


so if he's playing you play him right back


its a dirty game but we got to survive some how
don't play games. that's for children. you were lucky enough to re-connect with him. Have a talk with him. Get all the feelings out in the open %26amp; define what you have (if anything.) You're the one secretly listening on the phone but you call him a player ??Interesting.
You dont...the player handles you.