Pleaseeeeee Help! Advice is needed here!?

Hey. I'm an African American female that is really attracted to this Caucasian Male. We have both been great friends since the 6th grade and now we are both going to be sophmores next year. Time really flies by, huh? Anyways, I've actually liked him since the 7th grade. In 8th grade, I finally told him how I felt. Unfortunately, he only thought of me as an ';attractive, good friend.'; During my freshman year, I got over him, but now, I really like him again. He seems to like me this time and we text everyday for about 2 hours. I'm afraid to tell him how I feel, since he didn't like me in the 8th grade. What do you think my next move should be?Pleaseeeeee Help! Advice is needed here!?
Wrong category - try singles and datingPleaseeeeee Help! Advice is needed here!?
well if your texting each day, do something with your friends and text him to stop by and hang out, and once your hanging out, flirt with him or talk to see if he will make a move, or have one of your friends persuade him to see if he wants to make a move on you.
You could start spending time together - ask him to go for a coffee, for a walk, for some food, hang out together. Don't tell him you like him over a text message.


Don't even initiate any such feelings over a text message.





Play it cool, text him things like ''i'm kinda bored, do you want to meet up for coffee/food or something'', or ''let's do something'' You can suggest for him to bring his friends along too. You don't want to sound too forward, and don't want to project yourself as 'on a mission'. And particularly so because he once rejected a possibility of a romance.


Text messages are great, but it's only the first step - ask him to go places with you.





Think about things he likes to do, and suggest it. Or things you like to do and think he will enjoy. The more you spend time together and hang out outside of school premises, the better.





I know its nerve-racking to ask him to go places, but text it casualty, don't explain yourself or justify too much. If he says he's busy, say things like ''cool, no problem. I'm going *to do thing he just said he doesn't feel like doing*.


Or maybe even ''i'm going to do *something*, do you want to come along''.








I hope this works out for you. Just be patient and play it right - he will be yours. ;)


Good luck.

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