I NEED SERIOUS HELP!! ADVICE, ANYONE?

what do you say to a boy who you've been crushing on for like ever and knows you like him? i really need help- i'm talking to my crush tomorrow and i have no idea what to say!


- firstly, what do i say to start the conversation?


-secondly, what do i say to keep it going?


my crush is the kind of person who u can talk to about anything but i havent had a full conversation with him before so i need help!!!!!I NEED SERIOUS HELP!! ADVICE, ANYONE?
1. Start with an introduction, and simply tell the new person your name. Offer your hand to shake, upon his/her responding to you. If you already know the person, skip this step and proceed to step 2.


2. Look around. See if there is anything worth pointing out. Sure, talking about the weather is a cliche, but if there's something unusual about it--shablam!--you've got a great topic of conversation.


3. Offer a compliment. Don't lie and say you love someone's hair when you think it's revolting, but if you like his or her shoes, or a handbag, say so. A sincere compliment is a wonderful way to get someone to warm up to you. But be careful not to say something so personal that you scare the person off or make him or her feel uncomfortable. It is best not to compliment a person's looks or body.


4. Ask questions! Most people love to talk about themselves --- get them going. ';What classes are you taking this year?'; but don't talk about yourself too much that makes you seem full of yourself. ';Have you seen (Insert-Something-Here)? What did you think of it?'; Ask open ended questions that will get them talking. For example, a good question would be, ';That's a nice handbag, where did you get it?'; and then they can talk about the day that they went shopping and all this funny stuff happened, as opposed to, ';I like your handbag.'; ';Thank you.'; and then its over. Again, keep the questions light and not invasive. Do not ask too many questions if he or she is not responsive to them.


5. Jump on any conversation-starters he or she might offer; take something he or she has said and run with it. Agree, disagree, ask a question about it, or offer an opinion, just don't let it go by without notice.


6. Look your new found friend in the eye, it engenders trust (but don't stare). Also, use the person's name a time or two during the conversation; it will help you remember the name, and will draw the person's attention to what you are talking about. Smile a lot, and laugh when any quip is made by the other person.


7. Don't forget to smile and have fun with your conversation!


8. So, you should just be yourself and ask the question that you would think be the right thing to say but, give yourself some time to think about what you say before you say it.








PS: Try your best not to act shy or nervous even if he knows you like him because then you seem awkward and uncomfortable talking to him and that's a turn-off.


Goodluck :)I NEED SERIOUS HELP!! ADVICE, ANYONE?
First of all, don't panic. I have a crush on this boy and we still talk sometimes. He waves to me in the halls all the time. Go up to him and just start out by saying hi. ask him what's up and what he's been up to. then start talking about things you think you both like. ask him if he saw a certain show you watched or if your into sports, start talking about that. Overall, just make sure you keep your cool. don't act all ';OMG! I know!!!'; and start talking like a valley girl. That kinda ruins it. Act casual and be yourself.
Haha, I had a crush on my boyfriend for 7 years before I got the courage to talk to him. Talk about how you first met him, where it was at and what you thought the best thing about that place was. Ask him what the best thing about the place you two first met at was, talk about your hobbies, see if you two have a lot in common, be sure to look him in the eyes and smile at him a lot, sweetness is what got me in with my boyfriend. Keep your crush smiling and laughing, he will then realize how great you are. Lol I used to call my crush gay, then right after I called him gay, I asked him if it was safe to tell Brittany that I was dating the cute brother. (Inside joke, Brittany was my best friend at the time and I was dating someone really close to my crush, their bondd was brotherly but they weren't related, and I told Brittany that I thought his brother was cute, well my crush heard about this because my boyfriend at the time confronted him about it. Then my boyfriend at the time left me for the girl he cheated on me with but said he ended it because he knew I was in love with someone else. Didn't bother me because I got the guy i really wanted in the end and we're still together to this day almost a year later.)
what is a crush, I'd love to know. Crushing on? Is that someone you like? How can you call him ';your crush'; if you haven't even had a conversation with him yet? How do you know you can talk to him about anything if you haven't talked to him yet?


Usually, you start a conversation by saying ';hey';, or ';hi';, then respond to what he says, then pick up on a new topic. Its not that hard.
- find out what he likes. (he's your crush so you should already know, its a topic of common interest)


- go up to him and ask him a question (can you believe that science test? oh wait, maybe you aren't in school anymore... ummm... hey what brings you to the... uh.... park? oh you get what i mean!)


- once he's answered, start talking about your topic of common interest


- because its his common interest (lets say it's baseball) he will keep talking about it. just put your flirty face on and keep smiling. occasionally and casually flip your hair. if he says something remotely funny giggle. guys like it when girls think they are funny. it works for me every time.
play the ';question game';. me and my bf played that game forever but we played it were we ask any question no matter what. it got really perverted and helped our relationship a lot! but play the game it will keep the conversation going on for hours even days!! promise!
Whoa! Relax! You already answered your own question. You said he was the type that you can talk about anything with.... So, talk about anything that you find easy to talk about.





e.g.


Music on your iPod, Favorite bands - what concerts have you been to? How'd you do on your finals? Glad school is over!? What you doing for the summer..





The list goes on, just like talking to your friends, start with a subject and see where the conversation goes! Don't force it!
Ok ok first you'll have to calm down.


first if you guys are friends well it wont be that hard so just talk to him and when you feel comfortable to tell him how you truly feel about him tell him.





When you do if it doesnt go the way you wanted it to well ask him if you 2 can still be friends.
Try to find out his interests, whether he likes sports, etc.





Invite him out to lunch. That's usually pretty non-threatening.





Start up the conversation. Here are some topics: School, work, family, what he likes to do.





And if you're lucky enough to have at least a few common interests: Bingo!!! You already have the venue for your next date.





Good luck!
be yourself in front of him.. and dont be soo quit, otherwise he will think your boring, ask him things about him, and after a while tell him things about yourself, that you think will be interesting to him.. so start a convo... start of with things that r happening around..
just relax and ask him if he has a crush on anyone u now


and talk kiut not to much but dont die the conversation like if he talks


a lot dont slow down on talking and dont by any sercumsatance look like like ur bored at all





then just kiss and have sex
FIRST OF All DONT BE NERVOUS. THEY CAN SENSE IF YOUR NERVOUS. SECOND JUST TRY TO TLK ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE FUNNY OR JUST SOMETHING YOU MIGHT THINK THAT HE FINDS INTERESTING. AND THIRD BE YOURSELF, DON'T TRY TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT. GGOODD LLUUCCKK!!
Just start if off by just talking then ust tell him that you like him and then if the conversation gets wierd from there just switch topics or kiss him...its your choice what you do there but BE FRIENDLY!
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go up to him and just say hey wats up he's gonna say blah blah blah...,





and if u guys get an awkward moment then compliment him %26amp; dont be shy just act normal like if he was any other guy that uve known
Start off with like hi and hows your day. Then ask about the things he likes what hes doing in the summer. maybe in the end ask for his e-mail or number!!!
if he knows u like him then thats fine. just be normal and not nervous. just say hey and go from there. everythin should flow. try not to say um.uhh u know? good luck x
drugs is always a fun conversation to have :p
^always works for me.
Offer sex
Flash him your boobs.
guys like being asked questions.