HELP ADVICE needed??

my longterm boyfriend dumped me 7 weeks ago saying i was mental, but i later found i was prgnant.Admittedly i used to call him every 5 mins, and would lve him back for sake of child.should i be worried that he doesn't answer me on his lunchbreaks at work or just switches his mobile off???HELP ADVICE needed??
Leave him a message.





If you continue to call him he's seriously not going to answer and think your even more crazy then he thought you were before.





Leaving a message isn't the best way to tell someone your pregnant. But it doesn't seem like he's giving any other option. And if he truly cares about you and your child then he will actually call you back to talk to you about your/his options and what your next moves aught to be.





As for getting back with him, even for the sake of the child it doesn't seem like a good idea.





Good luck and CONGRATS on being pregnant.HELP ADVICE needed??
HI,


I know you're going crazy just finding out you're pregnant but he might be thinking your ';nutzo'; I mean no offence by this...just give him some time and DONT call him. This will possibly make him understand that you're not nuts you were just upset and feeling freaked. Does he know that you are pregnant? If so he could be doing his own ';male'; kind of freaking out. Give him time to chill out and think about you. believe me, it's when we DONT call guys the lightbulb lights in their head and they usually want you back. I know it's going to be really hard not to call him..but the more you dont call...the more he might want to hear from you. try and wait until he calls you...say 2 weeks. If you are indeed pregnant and he's the father..wether he knows it or not the two of you will have to work this out for a lifetime for the childs sake. If he doesnt want to get back together with you he will still have to pay child support for the next 18 years...so you see honey...you've got him either way. I hope the two of you can work this out for the childs sake. I have two children and have been separated for a long time now but we have to still see each other and get along for our children. Good luck to you!


Eileen
It sounds like he has had it with you. That's the hard reality of it. Tell him you're pregnant, or leave a message and leave the decision up to him on whether or not he gets involved with the child. He may not want to be with you, but maybe he will want to be there for the child. Don't force him to get back with you, that won't work..just let him decide if he wants to be in the child's life...I am a single mom of a 3 year old, and I have done it on my own for the past 3 years and my ex has never seen her...he even wished death upon her...just have faith and you can do it alone..It's hard but it can be done...
What?! Find him, if he's the father he has to be with you, ofcourse i won't be a hell of a live foe you two guys, but think about the kid! But you could still fix it. Just be a good wife and a good mother and you'll have a perfect family, the amerikan dream comes true!!! lol


Find him and tell him!


good luck
you dont sound mental at all. its his loss and a good man gain. its really messed up how he is avoiding you like this. i would love to be there for you and help you. good luck
He doesn't want to be with you, sorry. You cant go out with someone for the sake of a child, it will grow up confused.