If you are truely, and I mean truely, in love with somebody, you are totally committed to them. You never want to leave their side and you really do care for them. If this person really does love your friend, he would never even THINK about using other women. If he actually does this, then he is obviously just a player. Your friend deserves better. Ask HER if she really thinks she loves this guy or if it's just lust.I need help for giving advice to my friend?
I think you need to make coffee and have a long talk , its more of an explanation, you need to define the word love, what does love means, how do people act when they are in love.... She needs to understand strong words, TRUST, COMMITMENT, COMMUNICATION, RESPECT, .......ask her if he loves her so much, why are none of the words that mean love applies to their relationship....... Be nice, dont be pushy , but when all said and done, you are her friend so let her know no matter what she does, you will be there.....
No I am afraid he is feeding her a line and telling her what he thinks she wants to hear. He does not love her nor respect her or he wouldnt be doing the things he is doing. If he loved her, his actions would be all about her and not other women.
men like that are players and i no a lot of them that do that to their girlfriends. hes thinks hes 'it' and thinks he can get every girl under the sun. u cant be in love and be doing that. it doesnt work and ISNT right at all!!
If a guy really loves a girl he wouldn't even think of using other girls yet alone use them because he would be so caught up with making you happy he wouldn't have time for that.Besides if he could use them what makes you so sure he wouldn't use YOU????????
He may have feelings for her but he doesn't respect those feelings.
Love is usually confused with attachment or emotional connection with someone. To love is to leave all others behind. Never forget that.
ask you friend to ask him if he is willing to change since it obvious that both you and your friend are uncomfortable with the fact that he uses other women.
no, you cannot... maybe this will help you explain things to her..
http://relationshiptips-bgross22.blogspot.com/
No. Sounds like a pimp.
Take time to think and then do the thing that you feel good with. I wish for the best!
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