im almost 16 and i have never met my dad. i know his name and his address, but his phone number isn't listed anywhere. he has never called me or given child support or anything. my mom won't let me talk to him or my relatives on that side until i'm 18. i really want to talk to him, but she would flip if she found out. how could i go about contacting him or how could i find some of his relatives to contact? would it even be worth it? would he want to see me at all even though he has never talked to me? HELPWhat to do about father? need help/advice?
Please listen to your Mom. She must have very good reasons to want you to wait until you are 18 to contact him. You do not realize it at your age, but in two years you will be more mature and better able to handle what is in store for you by meeting him. Do NOT contact him!
It is your Mom who has taken care of you all of these years, not your dad. She loves you and want to protect you from hurt. Just enjoy your years in school and your friends and be thankful that you have a Mom who cares about you. You will not regret it. It might spoil you life as you now know it. I know you are curious, but wait. You will be glad you did. Take care and good luck to you.
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