Thursday, December 31, 2009

Help? (advice)!?

I need help my parents keep fighthing they ussually dont talk ever since my Dad injured his back at work its like you cant talk to him anymore he thinks its everyones fault and now he's saying he will leave us im really I dont know stressed I guess he just blames everyone you know sometimes I just wish he'd die thats how its gotten to me I dont want any of the counselor adivice family counceling IT Will not work I will leave it there for my own reasons,


I really dont know what to do?


I Feel sick I dont feel like eating Im starting to hate everyone around me.


All thanks to this ';Dad'; Whihc I dont even like calling him that anymore.Help? (advice)!?
I think you need to talk to your mom. Right now, your dad is not in that mood to be talked to. Their problems are theirs to solve and not yours. But, since it is affecting you, you need to talk to your mom and tell her how you are feeling about them fighting like that. What you said here, tell her the same. But be calm about it too.





Your dad is probably going through some tough times because of his injured back and maybe he cannot do what he normally does like work and other stuff. So, it is affecting him somehow that he is taking his frustrations out on your mom and you. He so much probably wants to support you guys, but can't with his back being injured. So put yourself in his shoes of having an injured back and not able to work. Your mom needs to understand too.





No need to say bad things about him, he is your dad. You need to respect him no matter what. They are both having some problems and probably need to seek counseling or maybe he needs to be comforted for his pain. But, he shouldn't blame it on you guys, this has nothing to do with you. He wants to leave because he doesn't know how to handle the situation, but instead he would rather leave than to fix the problems at home.





Tell your mom to get these two books called, ';The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage'; and ';The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands';. Because if they continue to act like kids and not be the parents that they should be for you, then you are going to have some problems of your own.Help? (advice)!?
hey I think that your parents are slowly growing apart, and you dad being hurt makes matters worse. I say whatever you do don't run from your problems.

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