my last pregnancy ended me in a wheelchair with a broken pelvis for the last 6 months, my OB told me that i had a 50% chance it would heal and thankfully it did. but she also told me Never to get pregnant again or it would happen again and my chances of it healing were very slim i would probably spend the rest of my life in a chair.
well due to a broken condom here we are again,
i do have an appointment to end the pregnancy but i feel that i really dont have the strenght meantally to do this.
Am i wrong for having this done,
should i go for it and pray for a healty prgnancy.
God please help with this i have no one other then hubby to talk to and he keeps saying its up to me and whats one more!
im afraid of the pain of the pelvis and not temparally but permanetly.
sorry for ramblingHelp!!!! advice needed on pregnancy?
Honey, If you feel that ending the pregnancy would be too much to take, then don't do it. I had an abortion 11 years ago and I still hate myself for it. Maybe it would be different for me if I had gone into it knowing that it was the right thing for me to do, but I didn't and it wasn't.
If you're going to regret ending the pregnancy more than going through with it, go through with it. Prayer can do amazing things, and so can good doctors and healthcare.
You have alot to think about. I can understand your husband saying what he said. It's not him that may end up in a chair for the rest of his life, it's you. This really isn't a choice he can make for you.
One thing I will say... if this isn't a something that you want to face again, you may want to consider having a tubal ligation in order to save you the hard decision.Help!!!! advice needed on pregnancy?
Was the previous broken pelvis a result of the birthing process? If so, could they just induce this baby early to avoid that ... when the baby will be smaller? Or perhaps take the baby Cesarean?
I know that it's a difficult decision, but surely there has to be some way to manage it without killing your baby. Have you gotten an opinion from another doctor ... perhaps a high risk OB?
I think you should remember what you're doctor said.if you have this baby and you're pelvis brakes again.you may end up in the wheel chair for good this time.so I would go and end the pregnancy.and for get about what you're husband is saying. cause if i were him i would want you to end it.so that you wouldn't end up in a wheelchair.for the rest of you're life.Not keep saying whats one more.I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts. good luck
I am really sorry to hear of your predicament but I am afraid you are going to have to face up to reality. You say you don't have the strength to have an abortion, ask yourself this ';Do you have the strength to leave your other 3 children with a handicapped or even dead mother '; - somehow I don't think so. Ask your children what they think. God doesn't want you to suffer, it's your choice. As for your husband saying that it's up to you, doesn't he mind if you are wheelchair bound ? I would have a termination and get yourself sterilised at the same time. Be a responsible mother to the children you have already given birth to.
I really wish you all the best and take care.
I really don't know what to say, l'm really sorry you are going through that but l don't think ending the pregnancy is the right move, the child you are carrying is precious so give him or her a chance to live, l think you should seek advice from professionals on how to take things slowly while you are pregnant to avoid a lot of damage to your pelvis. The choice is yours at the end of the day, do whats right for you.
I am assuming that it is a problem later in the pregnancy as the baby gets bigger, would it be possible to get some help with your other children and finish the later months of pregnancy in total bed rest? The choice is only yours to make, you know what is right for you and your family. I had an abortion when I was young and didn't know any better (FOR ME) and I have regretted it my whole life. I was young and didn't really know what the procedure consisted of. I would never advise anyone to have one, but again that is just my opinion.We all have them! *smiles*
Good luck in whatever you do.
There may be something of use here.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you. After this child, perhaps you can get your tubes tied? Or something else that will ensure you don't become pregnant again? Definitely something to think about -
Good luck!
You have all the right to be concerned and I find your decision to terminate this pregnancy a very difficult decision to make, however, if the chances are that you would be wheel chair bound for the rest of your life, I'd say, for your families sake as well as your own lively hood do what best for all.
Girl, I'm not saying that you are doing the right or wrong thing, but it is as simple as this. You know that you and your baby to be are in jeopardy by even continuing the pregnancy. When I went through my abortion, I though my world was going to end. But as time went by, I thought more and more about my decision, and after about a year, I knew, in my heart and soul that I had made the right decision. And don't get me wrong sweetie, you are going to need all the help you can get emotionally, but having faith in The Lord can get you through anything. The Lord is forever forgiving. And is ALWAYS there. Be strong, and PRAY PRAY PRAY!!! Pray for strength, love, forgiveness, and most importantly, the ability to forgive yourself. Because believe me, That is the hardest part.!!
I hope it all ends well, and good luck sweetie. God Bless!!!
You should risk your life. Be a strong woman. Sometimes you have to do a small ';wrong'; to do a bigger ';right';. Your hubby and your kids need you. Be very clear about it and dont look back or repent. Go for the abortion
So what, you end up in a wheel chair!! Your baby will live. I can't believe you people are so thoughtless when it comes to bringing a life into this world. You should of been on birth control to begin with ';DUH';!!! You sound very selfish,';Let's see...give birth or have pelvic pains, OH wait lets just have an abortion...You MURDERER!!!! People like you shouldn't be allowed to reproduce..
ya don't do i have the same problem and i was going to get rid of are son but i said to my self what did are son do to me nothing so now he's 3 weeks old and I'm fine and gong to the mall and other stuff and no problems at all hes fine and Ive never felt beater
Quite the situation you have there. I think that if you choose to terminate this pregnancy, you are doing so in the interest of your health, and the well being of your children.
However, if you choose to continue with the pregnancy maybe you could talk to your doctor about doing a c-section instead of natural delivery. They may take a little longer to heal, but not as long as a broken pelvis. If they took the child a couple weeks early, it's possible to aviod the broken pelvis. Unless it wasn't the birthing process that broke you pelvis to being with that is.
If I was you, I would talk with my doctor about the possibility of a c-section before I would consider abortion.
But, it is your choice! That's why we live here in this Great country, so we can have that choice. And if it's medically nec. then by all means, go through with it.
What ever you choose, Much Luck to you!
no matter who you consult the choice is yours...... whatever you choose good luck and consider a more permanent method of contraception where mistakes dont happen
consult a good and humanitic doctor for this
What a problem, I feel for you. No one has the right to tell you what is right. The only thing you can do is ask yourself what kind of Mum you will be able to be if you end up in the Chair, how would the child feel about being responsible, could you manage?
Your family as a whole needs thier mum and wife as complete as possible, as able to be part of the family as possible?
Good luck
there is other options ..other than natural child birth..consult a doc....and or family planning ctr. near you...
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