Help? Advice? Anything?

So for about the past 3 and a half years, me and my parents have been doing nothing but fighting. My brother is leaving for the Navy on the 4th of next month. Me and my mom have hardly been speaking to each other for a week. And now that it's close for my brother to be leaving, it's like I'm not even here anymore. They don't see me, they don't hear me--completley ignored. And with all the fighting, I just can't put up with it. They treat the dogs with more respect and love and care than what they do me. My parents have put me down over and over and my mom has called me a mistake and the ';child she never wanted.'; I try to put up with it but with everything else that's going on in my personal life I can't deal with it. So i've been trying to get emancipated but I'm not so sure that's going to work out, but I just don't know what to do. We've been in family therapy for over and year %26amp; nothing has changed. It seems we're a hopless family. And we just don't agree on anything. Help? Advice?Help? Advice? Anything?
You need to stop and consider what you contribute to the bad situations; what you may hear is not necessarily what is said, just what you want to hear them say; what you think they feel is not what they feel but what you want to feel.


Try showing yourself love toward them and the want to be with them.Help? Advice? Anything?
In your mother`s birthday or mothers day or newyear ,I suggest you to buy a book for every one in your family the book is '; Broken wings';by V.C.Andrews. You will find many soulutions for your life there. .


Good lucke
Stop fighting with them (it takes two sides to make a fight).





I don't know if you can persuade them to change therapists. It sounds like the one you have isn't helping. As with anything else, some are better than others, or better with some things than others.





Seems to me, in your situation, being ignored is better than fighting, so let them ignore you; spend time out of the house, or in your room.