i cannot say for sure if he is cheating on you or not, but the question you need to ask yourself is if you still want to be with him, no matter the outcome of your suspicion? if you do, try some of these tips which i tried and it worked and is still working for me, not that my hubby was cheating, but we both had starting to get bored, so we spiced things up a bit.
1. stop snooping around, he probably knows you are snooping, that will get him angrier.
2. start being nicer to him.
3. if you really love him, belive what he tells you and tell him you belive he is not cheating on you.
4. be less confrontational and aggressive, you are probably pushing him away from you.
5. make him look forward to coming back home from work, good food, nice conversation (listen to him and pay attention as he tells you how his day went).
6. get nice underwears and nighties and give him loads and loads of sex.
7. praise him and point out his goods rather than bads.
even if he is currently cheating on you, he will realize that what he is looking for outside, he can get at home. good luck.Help/advice needed please..?
A woman can be even more effective by her sweetness and tenderness, you can get everything by that and only that, so listen to some of the advice here be cool , and give even more let him draw back from other distractions and be pulled back into YOU
well number one thing dont try to snoop into his blackberry or anything else that will just drive him farther away from you, you wouldnt want him going on your email address snooping on you would you? Have you ever thought hes just texting a friend for fun? and why are you upset that he takes a shower everyday be happy he doesnt smell and changes everyday! i think your being overly paranoid and if you keep snooping like this your relationship will be over
Trust your gut, what good would snooping really do? If you feel something is wrong then believe in yourself to be strong enough to do what you need to do.
I am afraid I also (from UK) have never heard of a blackberry but assume it's a devise in which he can work on line with the privacy of you not snooping.
It does sound suspicious i am afraid. I don't think you are getting anywhere by asking him as he is in denying it and will continue to do so.
Is he late home from work and having to go out more?
You could hire a private detective if finances allow.
Contact the company that make those blackberry and say you have forgotten your pass code and how can you open the blackberry.
If his attitude towards you and the kids have changed then maybe you need to have this all out with him and ask him outright if he wants to end the marriage%26gt; I know that will be hard for you BUT this suspicion is going to end your marriage anyway.
Might be good to cut your losses now?
You could always destroy the blackberry or throw it away!
If you really do want to get in to his blackberry, I found a couple of sites that MAY be able to help...http://www.blackberry.com/partners/quest鈥?/a> and https://www.blackberry.com/MDSForum/emai鈥?/a>
Try them out.
I don't know anything about Blackberrys either.
Well I would answer this if I could; but I have not heard about this blackberry... other than in fruit, or jam!!!
Now that rather complicates things because I can't answer the question!
But what does show via your question, is that there is a situation of a lack of trust. Whether or not that is justified is the question, now isn't it?? I think you're going to have to have a confrontation about your feelings, else you'll be going round the twist!! Good luck with finding out. Hope it's not bad news.
He's playing away , sort it with him !!
I understand your concern. You shouldn't have to play 'who is she?' Don't play games with your and your kids life. You need to sit down with him and seriously question him of his intentions. Share with him of your thoughts. Ask him if he seeking a divorce? Let him know that you're not going to play investigator, because you expect him to be open and truthful.
Listen to me: you want to know if he's having an affair? It doesn't matter who he suppose to be involve with! The point is where do you and your kids stand in his life? Have your kids to eat dinner in their room and explain that it's important that you talk. Speak low and very direct. Explain to him that you're not going to keep wondering day after day who he is involve with? You just want the truth to come from his mouth! But you must give him a chance to explain why is behavior is so suspicious and odd.
God Bless
forget the blackberry, trust your instincts!
You need to have a serious talk with your partner.Your children have aright to a father and you have a right to know whats going on for the sake of your marriage and kids.You might be better off without him.
hey u can also bring a blackberry
You have answered your own question,have you not?trust your inst incs he is playing away.
It sounds like you don't trust him any way, never mind about the Blackberry. I'd say trust your instincts and (in agreement with another contributor) be all sweetness and light to him. YOU make a change too, either he'll realise what he's missing, or he'll continue to play away - if that's what he's doing. It does happen - they get to a stage where a pretty face tempts them. It may just be a bit of flirtation, but it can lead to other things. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, he may just be a bit bored. Be nice to him, try to stop being suspicious (even though you are) and let him make his own way back to you in his own time. If he doesn't, then you need to decide what you want to do.
let him show himself up if hes doing something ,if you look for something it will blow up in your face ,whatever is done in the dark must come on with the light ,soon enough your Q will come ,men can't lie for too long
when a bloke beggins to suddenly make an effort to be neat and tidy, he's either poncy, puffy or cheating, you know him, trust your instincs, what do you know is happening.
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