HELP - ADVICE Needed ......Please?

iv just turned 44 by BF of 5yrs is 36 - He wants a Baby, i have always said from the begining of the realationship i was never going to have anymore. My daughter will be 18 in 1 week.





He is at the point of leaving me if i do not have a child with him as he wants one so bad.





We both love each other very much.....and im really scared and im not sure what is the right thing to do anymore...Please give me some advice...........HELP - ADVICE Needed ......Please?
It's your life too you are allowed a say.HELP - ADVICE Needed ......Please?
have you considered adoption? he wants a child, you don't want to have one, so that might solve your problem. i understand that at 44 you don't want to raise another child, and i certainly agree with your thoughts on that. sadly, he doesn't. in this case there is no right thing to do unfortunately. if you folks can't come to a compromise of some sorts, you may well be at the end of your relationship road. hopefully, you can communicate with each other and reach a decision you both are happy with and can live with.
If you told him you was not going to have any more children, this is not for you to decide. He has to decide if he wants to be with you. If he wants to leave, then that is his loss. If you decide to go against your principal stance now, then be prepared for a rough life. After that, he will know that you are willing to change your mind about anything that you decide. In other words, if you say you not going to do that, he will know you are just saying it and not going to carry it out.
At the age of 44, pregnancy will be hard on you, in fact with some women it can be downright dangerous!





Since this person is undeniably a selfish s$$, you need to consider dropping him like a hot potato and find someone who really cares for you and not just his own wants and desires. Although he might be ignorant of the fact. You might try to educate him in the dangers of someone your age risking pregnancy. If he still refuses to understand, dump him and move on!
you cant just have a baby to suit another person - if you're sure theres no comprimise then the only real option is to go your seperate ways - ye both want different things - it makes neither of ye wrong or a bad person or whatever - just wanting different results out of life


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If you don't want it, tell him to adopt a baby from like china or somewhere. If he don't like the idea, then you should have a baby because divorcing is totally bad.