I Like This Girl In School Alot And Am Not Good At The Moves And Words (If You Know What I Mean).
My Friends Persuaded Her To Think That I Like Her And She Was Shocked. Later A Rumour Was Going Round Saying That She Is Going Out With Someone Else, But Most Rumours Are Wrong In Our School. Advice Please?Help Advice Please?
Ask her!! I know this sounds scary but it's the only way to be sure. Just walk up to her and tell her you hear there's a rumour that you like her and then admit that it's true but tell her you've also heard she's seeing someone and if that's true it's cool you'll leave it alone, be confident in your approach and this may surprise her. Remind yourself before you speak to her that you're a wonderful person and have nothing to be nervous of as she's a lucky girl that it's her you've fallen for. the worst that can happen is she'll tell you she's not interested tell yourself it's her loss walk away and forget her, there really are plenty more fish in the sea!!!Help Advice Please?
ask her
Gather up your courage and ask her to sit with you at lunch, if she refuses then you got your answer. Never believe rumors, they tend to be lies in disguise.
GOOD LUCK!!
well, my advice would be to go up to her and ask if she's going out with somebody. i mean the worst that could happen would be that she say yes!
Are you good at expressing you feelins with words? If yes write her an email or letter
I think you should talk to her. I mean how would she no if you don't talk to her. If she is talking to someone all she can say is she talking to someone or she not really into you and if she not don't get down because it just one girl their others. No Biggie just keep it pimpin'.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Help? advice?
mark has been my best guy friend for as long as I can remember. people always tell me I should go out with him. this other boy I like, daniel, likes to annoy me. he will randomly come out behind me in the halls and say ';I'm going to kill you'; then gives me this creepy look. he acts serious when he says it but he is joking. I wanted mark to meet daniel and mark was like ';I don't need to meet him, I already know who he is, I saw you talking to him earlier';. is mark jealous? when daniel comes out of no where to talk to me and say that, is he trying to flirt with me or just annoy me? help!!! what should I do to get daniel to stop saying those things?Help? advice?
What he is saying isnt funny...I would tell a teacher, your parents...someome....jabbawockeez mask
What he is saying isnt funny...I would tell a teacher, your parents...someome....
Help/advice needed about girl i met on hol!?
I met a girl on holiday, she was the most beautiful person ever! i spoke to her a couple times, but that was about it. the night before she left, she was ill in bed, but i saw her friend that night who gave me her phone number. i text her after she'd left, and she then rang me that night asking me to pass her number onto one of the girls from the hotel and told me to call her when i got home so we could meet up. i text her a couple more times the rest of the week but she was really crap at replying. i sent her a text once i got home, but she hasn't replied... now it's been nearly a week and i've still heard nothing. if i ring her or text her again will i seen really needy??? i don't wanna give up on her, she was soo amazing!!! but at the same time i don't wanna be a weird stalky-loser kinda person. HELP PLEASE!!!Help/advice needed about girl i met on hol!?
It sounds like you have been texting her alot and not speaking to her directly. You need to phone her, be direct with her, and ask her if she would like to meet up. She did after all ask you to phone her. There could be a reason why she is not responding to your texts. Mobile phones are strange and do however go on the blink quite a bit. You have to speak to her to ease your mind. If she blows you off at least you know you spoke directly to her and then you can get on with your life. Good LuckHelp/advice needed about girl i met on hol!?
if she is telling you to give your number to one of the girls at the hotel, then i dont think that she is interested in you or any other guy for that matter. or she may be bisexual. just keep trying to get in touch with her and see if anything changes.
sexyvamp.
it doesnt sound like she's interested......you can try phoning or texting her one more time,but it doesnt sound hopefull.
Mystery is the key, lasses like attention but also can't be smothered. It sounds like you've given her a lot of attention, so if you stop contact now then hopefully she'll miss your texts and make an effort on her half. If she doesn't get in touch I'm afraid she's not interested in you so you'll have to move on sorry.
Stop texting and calling, it's up to her now to make an effort now.
if she wanted you and she feels the same she would have text you or called by this time so just move on you may think she is the one but if she is then let her call you it her turn
she may not be interested though,or could be a lesbian etc. there's plenty of excuses for not texting you but the way i see it is if you keep texting her then you will be seen as needy. why dont you text her one final time and say something like you had a really nice time on holiday and you would like to stay friends if it is okay with her. then leave it!!!! if its meant to be, it will happen. dot wait around for someone who might not be interested though.
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell her how you feel
If she doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if she says ';no'; so I can make plans
yeah i would text one last time and see what happens. if she doesnt call or anything just back off. There are plenty of fish in the sea, no need wasting your time on one who doesnt want to be with you
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell her how you feel
If she doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if she says ';no'; so I can make plans
ok if you keep on texting her it will make you seem destperate i think thats how you spell it but any way just call her and tell her if you dont wont to talk to me just say it then she will give you your answer but dont keep texting her maybe she got an boyfriend just ask her
It sounds like you have been texting her alot and not speaking to her directly. You need to phone her, be direct with her, and ask her if she would like to meet up. She did after all ask you to phone her. There could be a reason why she is not responding to your texts. Mobile phones are strange and do however go on the blink quite a bit. You have to speak to her to ease your mind. If she blows you off at least you know you spoke directly to her and then you can get on with your life. Good LuckHelp/advice needed about girl i met on hol!?
if she is telling you to give your number to one of the girls at the hotel, then i dont think that she is interested in you or any other guy for that matter. or she may be bisexual. just keep trying to get in touch with her and see if anything changes.
sexyvamp.
it doesnt sound like she's interested......you can try phoning or texting her one more time,but it doesnt sound hopefull.
Mystery is the key, lasses like attention but also can't be smothered. It sounds like you've given her a lot of attention, so if you stop contact now then hopefully she'll miss your texts and make an effort on her half. If she doesn't get in touch I'm afraid she's not interested in you so you'll have to move on sorry.
Stop texting and calling, it's up to her now to make an effort now.
if she wanted you and she feels the same she would have text you or called by this time so just move on you may think she is the one but if she is then let her call you it her turn
she may not be interested though,or could be a lesbian etc. there's plenty of excuses for not texting you but the way i see it is if you keep texting her then you will be seen as needy. why dont you text her one final time and say something like you had a really nice time on holiday and you would like to stay friends if it is okay with her. then leave it!!!! if its meant to be, it will happen. dot wait around for someone who might not be interested though.
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell her how you feel
If she doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if she says ';no'; so I can make plans
yeah i would text one last time and see what happens. if she doesnt call or anything just back off. There are plenty of fish in the sea, no need wasting your time on one who doesnt want to be with you
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell her how you feel
If she doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if she says ';no'; so I can make plans
ok if you keep on texting her it will make you seem destperate i think thats how you spell it but any way just call her and tell her if you dont wont to talk to me just say it then she will give you your answer but dont keep texting her maybe she got an boyfriend just ask her
Help. . . .advice?
Okay im really desperate right now to see my girlfriend.
Im 14 and no one is willing to take me to see her because she lives in kentucky and i live in california. . . .
I just want to know what i can do? And i have no where near enough money for a plane ticket or anything. . . . .Help. . . .advice?
You should get what i had with my boyfriend. My cousin suggested it to me when he moved and it was a great idea. Okay so its a webcame you hook up a camera to the computer so you can see eachothers faces!! And you need to talk on myspace, email and IM to see what times both of you are available. You will get to see her without the plane ticket that you can't afford. ANd also in case you dont know what a webcame is you can see eachothers faces on the computer and talk to eachother its rele cool. And a lot of fun to do! good luck!Help. . . .advice?
well does she live around south central ky???
if she does you are screwed even if you want to go see her by plane b/c there are no big airports so you couldnt catch a plane from cali to ky. i would know i lived in ky for 14 years. ok seriously though you cant be serious... i wouldnt go out with someone that lived in a different state than me b/c it gives them a clear shot at cheating on you. but anyway you could try to convince your parents or whoever you live with that you want to go to ky for next summers vacation. it could work. good luck.
P.S. AND FOR GAY PRODUCER PERSON: FYI WE DO ARE NOT INBREEDS I SWEAR THAT TICKS ME OFF. I HAVE LIVED THERE ALMOST ALL OF MY LIFE AND I HAVE NEVER MET ONE INBREED THE WHOLE TIME.
I AM SORRY BUT THE STATE YOU ARE THINKING OF IS OHIO!!!!!!!!!!
Keep in touch via email or snail mail. However, at your age, traveling that far to see a girl isn't going to happen.
Believe me when I tell you time heals all wounds. I know it is hard to believe, but it will get better.
And just when you think you have lost all hope, you'll meet someone else. Don't turn a blind eye to potential friends because you are mourning the loss of an old one.
You are young. Enjoy your life. If it is really meant to be, your paths will cross again. And maybe she left because you were meant to meet someone else?
Uhhhh, Kentucky. That's a tricky place. I've heard that in Kentucky they date only family members. For example, in Kentucky they marry their aunts or uncles. Sicko isn't it.
Anyways, California has some hot babes. So look into what California has to offer.
well this is wut u could do. u can try 2 do somethin 2 get money n save up 2 c her or, u can buy a web cam on ur computer if u dont hav 1! u can use lik yahoo instant messenger 2 c her! but this will work only if she has a webcam so the both of u guys can c each other! if that doesn't works u can always call n write letters 2 each other! sori but that is all i can think of rite now! so goodluck wit that situation!:)
why didnt u say that in the other ques?
so u 2 have one of those long distance relationships?
if thats the case it wont last long....
wow that's a long aways away for a gf have u meet this girl befor or anything if so get a job and save up money and if she wants to see u that much to she should send money 2
Maybe it would be easier to get a gf who lives in Cali
What about a web cam or chatting online or something?
Ok, please go answer my question now, thanks.
this is totaly wats happening to me. it sucks doesnt it. well i would say just keep trying. (if u find a real good way let me no cuz i need one too)
my questions are;
how did you meet her?
did she move there?
Im 14 and no one is willing to take me to see her because she lives in kentucky and i live in california. . . .
I just want to know what i can do? And i have no where near enough money for a plane ticket or anything. . . . .Help. . . .advice?
You should get what i had with my boyfriend. My cousin suggested it to me when he moved and it was a great idea. Okay so its a webcame you hook up a camera to the computer so you can see eachothers faces!! And you need to talk on myspace, email and IM to see what times both of you are available. You will get to see her without the plane ticket that you can't afford. ANd also in case you dont know what a webcame is you can see eachothers faces on the computer and talk to eachother its rele cool. And a lot of fun to do! good luck!Help. . . .advice?
well does she live around south central ky???
if she does you are screwed even if you want to go see her by plane b/c there are no big airports so you couldnt catch a plane from cali to ky. i would know i lived in ky for 14 years. ok seriously though you cant be serious... i wouldnt go out with someone that lived in a different state than me b/c it gives them a clear shot at cheating on you. but anyway you could try to convince your parents or whoever you live with that you want to go to ky for next summers vacation. it could work. good luck.
P.S. AND FOR GAY PRODUCER PERSON: FYI WE DO ARE NOT INBREEDS I SWEAR THAT TICKS ME OFF. I HAVE LIVED THERE ALMOST ALL OF MY LIFE AND I HAVE NEVER MET ONE INBREED THE WHOLE TIME.
I AM SORRY BUT THE STATE YOU ARE THINKING OF IS OHIO!!!!!!!!!!
Keep in touch via email or snail mail. However, at your age, traveling that far to see a girl isn't going to happen.
Believe me when I tell you time heals all wounds. I know it is hard to believe, but it will get better.
And just when you think you have lost all hope, you'll meet someone else. Don't turn a blind eye to potential friends because you are mourning the loss of an old one.
You are young. Enjoy your life. If it is really meant to be, your paths will cross again. And maybe she left because you were meant to meet someone else?
Uhhhh, Kentucky. That's a tricky place. I've heard that in Kentucky they date only family members. For example, in Kentucky they marry their aunts or uncles. Sicko isn't it.
Anyways, California has some hot babes. So look into what California has to offer.
well this is wut u could do. u can try 2 do somethin 2 get money n save up 2 c her or, u can buy a web cam on ur computer if u dont hav 1! u can use lik yahoo instant messenger 2 c her! but this will work only if she has a webcam so the both of u guys can c each other! if that doesn't works u can always call n write letters 2 each other! sori but that is all i can think of rite now! so goodluck wit that situation!:)
why didnt u say that in the other ques?
so u 2 have one of those long distance relationships?
if thats the case it wont last long....
wow that's a long aways away for a gf have u meet this girl befor or anything if so get a job and save up money and if she wants to see u that much to she should send money 2
Maybe it would be easier to get a gf who lives in Cali
What about a web cam or chatting online or something?
Ok, please go answer my question now, thanks.
this is totaly wats happening to me. it sucks doesnt it. well i would say just keep trying. (if u find a real good way let me no cuz i need one too)
my questions are;
how did you meet her?
did she move there?
Help .... Advice needed on teeth ? Pictures too! ????
Ok I want peoples educated opinion on my teeth .... what method should I take in correcting them!
Are they that bad ? Honestly! I posted pics 2 !
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Ok and also ... I know I have an overbite and I hear people with overbites need surgery! Do mine ?
What should I do? braces ? .........Help .... Advice needed on teeth ? Pictures too! ????
i used to have teeth just like yours but I got braces on when I wa like 13 and they actually ended up having to pull a couple teeth to make room for the other teeth and put this little metal bar underneath my two front teeth so that stops them from coming apart againHelp .... Advice needed on teeth ? Pictures too! ????
if you have an overbite you dont need surgery all you need is an expander and some braces i had a bad overbite and now i have straight teeth and that is all i needed
It is hard to see clearly, but possibly braces to fix the overbite and teeth whitening. You may want to look into veneers for the front teeth to fill the gap. HTH : )
Braces should do the job, my ex had teeth like that as a child, and braces corrected them very nicely!
You should get braces. A lot of people have overbites but you should get braces or invisiline just to fix the gap.
Talk to your orthodontist, you are going to need braces, i had them for three years they are not so bad, and my teeth are great now.
Kinda blue aren't they? You should probably get some whitening. Crest has a tratment for about $50
Are they that bad ? Honestly! I posted pics 2 !
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Ok and also ... I know I have an overbite and I hear people with overbites need surgery! Do mine ?
What should I do? braces ? .........Help .... Advice needed on teeth ? Pictures too! ????
i used to have teeth just like yours but I got braces on when I wa like 13 and they actually ended up having to pull a couple teeth to make room for the other teeth and put this little metal bar underneath my two front teeth so that stops them from coming apart againHelp .... Advice needed on teeth ? Pictures too! ????
if you have an overbite you dont need surgery all you need is an expander and some braces i had a bad overbite and now i have straight teeth and that is all i needed
It is hard to see clearly, but possibly braces to fix the overbite and teeth whitening. You may want to look into veneers for the front teeth to fill the gap. HTH : )
Braces should do the job, my ex had teeth like that as a child, and braces corrected them very nicely!
You should get braces. A lot of people have overbites but you should get braces or invisiline just to fix the gap.
Talk to your orthodontist, you are going to need braces, i had them for three years they are not so bad, and my teeth are great now.
Kinda blue aren't they? You should probably get some whitening. Crest has a tratment for about $50
I am in need of some good legal advice, can someone help me?
my husband has had several offers of employment and they have been withdrawn because of a job reference from 10 years ago. The ex sales manager has lied to his prospective employers by claiming that he had over $50,000 in chargebacks which it was $25,000 and he was honest with them as to the reasons why this occurred, so far it has been 5 bad references. I thought it was against the law to give specific details and more so to slander him this way, what can we do legally about this?I am in need of some good legal advice, can someone help me?
It is not against the law in all states to provide negative information on a past employee. Illinois, for example, in 1997 enacted a law that allows the previous employer to say just about anything they want as long as it is their belief that it is true.
You probably can file a civil suit against the sales manager for what he has said. An attorney may also be able to, in a letter, require that this person cease %26amp; desist spreading the lies. Sometimes a former employer will provide a ';neutral letter of recommendation'; which has the dates the employee worked and his title, rather than face a lawsuit. On the negative side, such a lawsuit can be expensive and unless the employers that rejected your husband will testify to what the prior employer said you may be out of luck.
Is there someone else that could provide your husband with a reference for this job. Perhaps the head of Human Resources or someone that he worked with who liked him. Many times when there is animosity over an employee leaving a company, his direct manager will purposely provide negative references just to get even with the employee for leaving. For most of my clients, we find another person who can provide a reference for that job and then give that person's name and phone number to prospective employers.
Good luck.I am in need of some good legal advice, can someone help me?
yes you can so go get um
You need to approach a civil attorney and prove that each job that refused to hire him didnt hire him because of that particular reference. Also why would he still be using the person as a reference, if the guy was doing that. It wont make it through court, as slander. maybe defamation but then again he had 35k in chargebacks already. It has to be more than what is being stated. Just ask an attorney though to be positive since they do free consultation what can it hurt. GOOD LUCK
It is not against the law in all states to provide negative information on a past employee. Illinois, for example, in 1997 enacted a law that allows the previous employer to say just about anything they want as long as it is their belief that it is true.
You probably can file a civil suit against the sales manager for what he has said. An attorney may also be able to, in a letter, require that this person cease %26amp; desist spreading the lies. Sometimes a former employer will provide a ';neutral letter of recommendation'; which has the dates the employee worked and his title, rather than face a lawsuit. On the negative side, such a lawsuit can be expensive and unless the employers that rejected your husband will testify to what the prior employer said you may be out of luck.
Is there someone else that could provide your husband with a reference for this job. Perhaps the head of Human Resources or someone that he worked with who liked him. Many times when there is animosity over an employee leaving a company, his direct manager will purposely provide negative references just to get even with the employee for leaving. For most of my clients, we find another person who can provide a reference for that job and then give that person's name and phone number to prospective employers.
Good luck.I am in need of some good legal advice, can someone help me?
yes you can so go get um
You need to approach a civil attorney and prove that each job that refused to hire him didnt hire him because of that particular reference. Also why would he still be using the person as a reference, if the guy was doing that. It wont make it through court, as slander. maybe defamation but then again he had 35k in chargebacks already. It has to be more than what is being stated. Just ask an attorney though to be positive since they do free consultation what can it hurt. GOOD LUCK
HELP! ADVICE PLEAse!?
i have a bff and i want her to watch a scary movie with me. she wont even try though shes never seen one. i told he well start out small and build up. what should i do if that doesnt work?HELP! ADVICE PLEAse!?
keep a disney movie on stand-by in case you need scariness detox -- and try a scary movie with a definite, they-killed-the-bad-guy end. nothing is scarier to a horror newbie than the thought that the scariness is still out there, waiting to get them.
otherwise, you can work your way up with funny scary movies (the Scary Movie series automatically springs to mind, along with Army of Darkness and Shaun of the Dead) but anything with a sense of humor is always good.
also, if you can get a comedy with the same lead actor or actress as your scary movie. Like ';See, it might be kind of scary, but it's not real. Here they are in another movie making fart jokes and falling in love...';HELP! ADVICE PLEAse!?
Start out with Disturbia. It's a good romance movie that i love watching with my friends! It's awesome for a first-time scary movie because its only scary for about ten minutes at the end. If it doesn't work then don't force it. If she doesn't want to watch it, don't make her! There are a lot of other AWESOME movies out there!
good luck %26amp; have fun! :)
keep a disney movie on stand-by in case you need scariness detox -- and try a scary movie with a definite, they-killed-the-bad-guy end. nothing is scarier to a horror newbie than the thought that the scariness is still out there, waiting to get them.
otherwise, you can work your way up with funny scary movies (the Scary Movie series automatically springs to mind, along with Army of Darkness and Shaun of the Dead) but anything with a sense of humor is always good.
also, if you can get a comedy with the same lead actor or actress as your scary movie. Like ';See, it might be kind of scary, but it's not real. Here they are in another movie making fart jokes and falling in love...';HELP! ADVICE PLEAse!?
Start out with Disturbia. It's a good romance movie that i love watching with my friends! It's awesome for a first-time scary movie because its only scary for about ten minutes at the end. If it doesn't work then don't force it. If she doesn't want to watch it, don't make her! There are a lot of other AWESOME movies out there!
good luck %26amp; have fun! :)
Help advice?
today is a busy day for me.
my firends want me to go hangout
with them today and other times they've ask me im i've always cancelled.
But today my parents are going to another city to visit my cousins and stuff
which is ALWAYS fun bcuz i have a big family.
10 points for best answer?!
ps - my friends want to watch movies and stuff thats about it
and dont bother saying grow up %26amp; your so imature becuz i dont need to know thatHelp advice?
I would just say sorry my parent want me to go hang out with my family today just do wich ever one youll have more fun atHelp advice?
which do you want to do? If you get to see your cousins often, then maybe you should stay home. But like me, I barely ever see my cousins, so that would be a big deal. I'm not telling you to grow up, I'm telling your friends to grow up. They need to understand that you have other people and things in your life. I doubt your parents will let you stay home alone with friends anyways. I'd go see my cousins, but whtevr,
well if you have a chance to go and see your cousins and visit i say go cause it wont be long that your going to more busy than now and you wont get the chances to go see them...so right now do family things while you can cause growing up you even get busier and time is limited....and if they live in different town go then be with your friends when you get back....good luckjabbawockeez mask
my firends want me to go hangout
with them today and other times they've ask me im i've always cancelled.
But today my parents are going to another city to visit my cousins and stuff
which is ALWAYS fun bcuz i have a big family.
10 points for best answer?!
ps - my friends want to watch movies and stuff thats about it
and dont bother saying grow up %26amp; your so imature becuz i dont need to know thatHelp advice?
I would just say sorry my parent want me to go hang out with my family today just do wich ever one youll have more fun atHelp advice?
which do you want to do? If you get to see your cousins often, then maybe you should stay home. But like me, I barely ever see my cousins, so that would be a big deal. I'm not telling you to grow up, I'm telling your friends to grow up. They need to understand that you have other people and things in your life. I doubt your parents will let you stay home alone with friends anyways. I'd go see my cousins, but whtevr,
well if you have a chance to go and see your cousins and visit i say go cause it wont be long that your going to more busy than now and you wont get the chances to go see them...so right now do family things while you can cause growing up you even get busier and time is limited....and if they live in different town go then be with your friends when you get back....good luck
Help advice needed!!!!!?
been going out with my bf for almost a year now....
we both want to get married.....he ordered a bridal set and so now we are engaged....I told my parents and they dont seem to happy but still better than I had planned.....our families do not get along.....we are both 18 years old but niether of us can drive and I have to go back to high school for cemester....I just need some advice from someone who was in a simalar situation.....Help advice needed!!!!!?
Have a very long engagement. You both need to not only be able to drive, but own vehicles, have jobs, in short, support yourselves without help from your families. Love is grand, but you have to be practical. You lovebirds would not want to start out struggling and fighting over money, would you?Help advice needed!!!!!?
here's my advice...stop rushing! marriage is so overrated and is not all that it's cracked up to be. live your lives first. go places...do things...enjoy being un-married for once. cause once you get married your time will no longer be your own. i can understand why both sets of parents are upset. i would be to. but hey...it's not my life that you are rushing. it's yours.
I completely understand that there are things that you feel compell you to do things like want to get married. I can understand that you're parents aren't happy with it either. My husband and I were high school sweethearts. My parents hated him and we both came from completely different lifestyles. He proposed to me in high school although he was also on his way to college. We kept it a secret and went on with our lives. Eventually we got together in college and were married after we graduated.
My advice to you. Don't worry about what others say but don't rush into things either. So you two want to get married, fine do it, but give it time. Get to know each other outside the high school life. Figure out your likes and dislikes and find out what works for the both of you. There are many things to figure out and find out about your partner before you marry. My husband and I were engaged for almost three years before we married and it was for the best. Many of our friends that jumped into it are still struggling a year later to figure things out. We on the other hand are perfectly fine and we truly enjoy each other's company and love. Good Luck and remember do what you want but not so fast. You have time.
Sweet Pea you and you fiance can always learn to drive that is not an issue you need to take the necessary steps to get your drivers license. I got married at 18 and my parents didn't like the idea but 9 years later I am still married and blessed as well. if you feel this is the right thing for you to do than you do it, you can never put an age on love it is something that is endless and timeless! Good luck my dear.
i say wait. I was dating my now husband when I was 18 but knew that it was wayyyy to early for marriage. We waited till college was done %26amp; able to support ourselves. I'm almost 23 now %26amp; we're both happy w/ kids %26amp; well off finacially. believe me it's best to wait especially if you still have a semester left. you guys need to get yourselves on track financially %26amp; make sure i mean really sure that's whan you want. i don't want to sound like money is everything, but lots of fights can boil down to financial reasons. trust me on this!!! it strains the relationship when you can't even go to the movies because money is tight. we went through some bad times especially after our first was born. also i know from experience guys attitudes change after high school. it's a whole different ballpark after that you'll find out. you guys should give it time at least till you're done w/ school %26amp; you guys can afford a car %26amp; place. especially if your families are unhappy, holding marriage off a few years will give them time to see that you are really right for each other.
Honey if you love him then wait. i know that sounds mean but This is the time to grow into yourself, figure out who you are and there is no way you are both ready. I dated my husband when we were in high school and I loved him then but we waited to get married we both lived else where for a time and when we decided to settle down we knew it was right. Waiting will only make your relationship stronger. Good Luck!
Go ahead, be engaged. I was at 18, but we put off any wedding and moving in together until we could be independent. I finished school and we got married when I was 20. That was 29 years ago. Things are not that different now, so don't think that I don't know what I'm talking about. Been there, done that!
Date, spend time together. If you really love each other, you will be able to wait. A year of dating is not really that long. Finish school and you both need to have some job skills. What are you going to do if neither of you can drive or you don't have a car? If you live in a big city with good transportation it might work out, but otherwise, you will be dependent on others. That will add lots of stress to a new marriage. It gets much harder later on to get back to school, as you have bills to pay, and if a baby comes along, it will be even MORE complicated. Real life comes with lots of stress and complications. Enjoy this time and build a strong foundation for your life together.
Your both young and have plenty of time. I was engaged for 2 years and dated him for 2 before that.
we both want to get married.....he ordered a bridal set and so now we are engaged....I told my parents and they dont seem to happy but still better than I had planned.....our families do not get along.....we are both 18 years old but niether of us can drive and I have to go back to high school for cemester....I just need some advice from someone who was in a simalar situation.....Help advice needed!!!!!?
Have a very long engagement. You both need to not only be able to drive, but own vehicles, have jobs, in short, support yourselves without help from your families. Love is grand, but you have to be practical. You lovebirds would not want to start out struggling and fighting over money, would you?Help advice needed!!!!!?
here's my advice...stop rushing! marriage is so overrated and is not all that it's cracked up to be. live your lives first. go places...do things...enjoy being un-married for once. cause once you get married your time will no longer be your own. i can understand why both sets of parents are upset. i would be to. but hey...it's not my life that you are rushing. it's yours.
I completely understand that there are things that you feel compell you to do things like want to get married. I can understand that you're parents aren't happy with it either. My husband and I were high school sweethearts. My parents hated him and we both came from completely different lifestyles. He proposed to me in high school although he was also on his way to college. We kept it a secret and went on with our lives. Eventually we got together in college and were married after we graduated.
My advice to you. Don't worry about what others say but don't rush into things either. So you two want to get married, fine do it, but give it time. Get to know each other outside the high school life. Figure out your likes and dislikes and find out what works for the both of you. There are many things to figure out and find out about your partner before you marry. My husband and I were engaged for almost three years before we married and it was for the best. Many of our friends that jumped into it are still struggling a year later to figure things out. We on the other hand are perfectly fine and we truly enjoy each other's company and love. Good Luck and remember do what you want but not so fast. You have time.
Sweet Pea you and you fiance can always learn to drive that is not an issue you need to take the necessary steps to get your drivers license. I got married at 18 and my parents didn't like the idea but 9 years later I am still married and blessed as well. if you feel this is the right thing for you to do than you do it, you can never put an age on love it is something that is endless and timeless! Good luck my dear.
i say wait. I was dating my now husband when I was 18 but knew that it was wayyyy to early for marriage. We waited till college was done %26amp; able to support ourselves. I'm almost 23 now %26amp; we're both happy w/ kids %26amp; well off finacially. believe me it's best to wait especially if you still have a semester left. you guys need to get yourselves on track financially %26amp; make sure i mean really sure that's whan you want. i don't want to sound like money is everything, but lots of fights can boil down to financial reasons. trust me on this!!! it strains the relationship when you can't even go to the movies because money is tight. we went through some bad times especially after our first was born. also i know from experience guys attitudes change after high school. it's a whole different ballpark after that you'll find out. you guys should give it time at least till you're done w/ school %26amp; you guys can afford a car %26amp; place. especially if your families are unhappy, holding marriage off a few years will give them time to see that you are really right for each other.
Honey if you love him then wait. i know that sounds mean but This is the time to grow into yourself, figure out who you are and there is no way you are both ready. I dated my husband when we were in high school and I loved him then but we waited to get married we both lived else where for a time and when we decided to settle down we knew it was right. Waiting will only make your relationship stronger. Good Luck!
Go ahead, be engaged. I was at 18, but we put off any wedding and moving in together until we could be independent. I finished school and we got married when I was 20. That was 29 years ago. Things are not that different now, so don't think that I don't know what I'm talking about. Been there, done that!
Date, spend time together. If you really love each other, you will be able to wait. A year of dating is not really that long. Finish school and you both need to have some job skills. What are you going to do if neither of you can drive or you don't have a car? If you live in a big city with good transportation it might work out, but otherwise, you will be dependent on others. That will add lots of stress to a new marriage. It gets much harder later on to get back to school, as you have bills to pay, and if a baby comes along, it will be even MORE complicated. Real life comes with lots of stress and complications. Enjoy this time and build a strong foundation for your life together.
Your both young and have plenty of time. I was engaged for 2 years and dated him for 2 before that.
Help advice?
Friends family ect... have always made comments about my weight. I am 6ft 152 pounds. Is that too skinny or what. It doesn't bother me I just don't understand...Help advice?
My experience is that your mother always wants you to gain weight. My ex wanted me to gain weight so she could gain weight and maybe I would not say anything to her. Unless you are dieting to stay slim why does it matter? People weigh what they should weigh. My comment is always I am not skinny I am slim and trim, and do you want to race? Since the average American male about the age of 30 is obese it is good to be different. It is healthy to be trim and not over weight.Help advice?
how is your health???f you feel good and no heath problems.your weight is determined by your bone size. not your height.. they are jealous.
Hey Me U don't tell much about Ur situaton. If Ur fine its grate.
Yes, it is considered skinny, but you'd better get used to people always commenting %26amp; trying to ';fatten you up';! I get it all the time, %26amp; I'm shorter %26amp; skinner.
You prbably just have a very fast metabolism. If your happy with yourself then I see no need for you to change.
My experience is that your mother always wants you to gain weight. My ex wanted me to gain weight so she could gain weight and maybe I would not say anything to her. Unless you are dieting to stay slim why does it matter? People weigh what they should weigh. My comment is always I am not skinny I am slim and trim, and do you want to race? Since the average American male about the age of 30 is obese it is good to be different. It is healthy to be trim and not over weight.Help advice?
how is your health???f you feel good and no heath problems.your weight is determined by your bone size. not your height.. they are jealous.
Hey Me U don't tell much about Ur situaton. If Ur fine its grate.
Yes, it is considered skinny, but you'd better get used to people always commenting %26amp; trying to ';fatten you up';! I get it all the time, %26amp; I'm shorter %26amp; skinner.
You prbably just have a very fast metabolism. If your happy with yourself then I see no need for you to change.
Help/Advice...?
Hello,
Basicaly, I have a problem with my hair.
I had it cut about over a month ago and it took a while to grow and ever since it seems that it's got really thin and my hair is no longer as curly.
I'm a 15 year old male. Could it be that i'm losing my hair already?
I had my hair layered btw if it matters.
Do you think that my hair could ever be restored or helped?
thanks.Help/Advice...?
Ahhh, the infamous hairloss panic every male endures at some point in time... Well my friend you don't need to worry about hair loss (you've got a couple of good years till that happens given that you take good care of it and... well you don't burn your scalp or anything tragic happens). Men don't lose their hair at such a young age as yourself. But your concern is healthy and you should take advantage of it to always make sure your hair is taken care of and at its best.
I've had my hair layered several times... in fact I specifically ask for layering, do you know why? Because I want the thin feel; my hair (thanks to my genetics) is naturally ';heavy'; and as a technique of countering my own genes I ask for layering. Layering is enough of a reason for your hair to be light, but what could make it even LIGHTER is the fact that your stylist may have thinned your hair (don't freak out it's a healthy process of making your hair lighter by cutting it vertically instead of horizontally removing weight from the hair).
As for the lack of curl, you've got two possible reasons; the lightness of your hair or you've actually at one point or another straightened it (but I highly doubt that a straightening iron can keep your hair straight for a month).
Whatever reason your hair is not curling back, RELAX, hair has this wonderful feature... it resets itself. There's some science to your hair but in a simple straight forward way, whatever you do (given you haven't done any permenant procedure like using chemical solutions to get a perm.. don't worry you haven't done anything permenant), when your hair grows back it will always grow back to its original state, i.e. if you give your hair some time it will go back to being curly and thick.
In summary:
Enjoy your hair buddy, don't you worry about hair loss cause it's just layering (and possibly thinning) and in a couple of weeks you should get your curls straight back... which would mean you'll have to go back to the stylist to get your hair layered :)Help/Advice...?
Having your hair layered thins the hair(not perminatlly) by taking the weight out.( I av to have it done to mine because its so thick!) Having your hair cut really short makes the curls grow straighter or less bouncy(so i have observed but I dont have any facts about it). i wouldn't think that your losing your hair..but these things can happen.
All da good shampoos i know about are quite femimine( seeing as i'm a 15 year old female :P) so if u dont mind then I'd recommend..any sort of volumising shampoo( Bed head have quite a good range- but some of em can be expensive) also ive found that Timotei is amazing!!
Sorry about the English but Im welsh so i don't really use English that much. Anyway don't know if it helps but good luck! :P
it's really hard to tell without seeing before and after pictures. It could just be that the layers make it appear and feel thinner. Also if it's way shorter than you yoused to have it, it may be less curly.
Layers will make your hair thinner. My hair was kinda thick then i had it layered and it totally made it lighter =D
Maybe its not curly its too short atm? :x
It'd probably get restored if your hair is naturally curly anyways
i don't know why but the longer your air is the less curly its going to be thats what happended to mine i got it cut and it was soooo much curlier then it was before
i think that the layers will make your hair feel thinner as you grab it!
Wait for it to grow some more and get them cut out that will make it look thicker.
Basicaly, I have a problem with my hair.
I had it cut about over a month ago and it took a while to grow and ever since it seems that it's got really thin and my hair is no longer as curly.
I'm a 15 year old male. Could it be that i'm losing my hair already?
I had my hair layered btw if it matters.
Do you think that my hair could ever be restored or helped?
thanks.Help/Advice...?
Ahhh, the infamous hairloss panic every male endures at some point in time... Well my friend you don't need to worry about hair loss (you've got a couple of good years till that happens given that you take good care of it and... well you don't burn your scalp or anything tragic happens). Men don't lose their hair at such a young age as yourself. But your concern is healthy and you should take advantage of it to always make sure your hair is taken care of and at its best.
I've had my hair layered several times... in fact I specifically ask for layering, do you know why? Because I want the thin feel; my hair (thanks to my genetics) is naturally ';heavy'; and as a technique of countering my own genes I ask for layering. Layering is enough of a reason for your hair to be light, but what could make it even LIGHTER is the fact that your stylist may have thinned your hair (don't freak out it's a healthy process of making your hair lighter by cutting it vertically instead of horizontally removing weight from the hair).
As for the lack of curl, you've got two possible reasons; the lightness of your hair or you've actually at one point or another straightened it (but I highly doubt that a straightening iron can keep your hair straight for a month).
Whatever reason your hair is not curling back, RELAX, hair has this wonderful feature... it resets itself. There's some science to your hair but in a simple straight forward way, whatever you do (given you haven't done any permenant procedure like using chemical solutions to get a perm.. don't worry you haven't done anything permenant), when your hair grows back it will always grow back to its original state, i.e. if you give your hair some time it will go back to being curly and thick.
In summary:
Enjoy your hair buddy, don't you worry about hair loss cause it's just layering (and possibly thinning) and in a couple of weeks you should get your curls straight back... which would mean you'll have to go back to the stylist to get your hair layered :)Help/Advice...?
Having your hair layered thins the hair(not perminatlly) by taking the weight out.( I av to have it done to mine because its so thick!) Having your hair cut really short makes the curls grow straighter or less bouncy(so i have observed but I dont have any facts about it). i wouldn't think that your losing your hair..but these things can happen.
All da good shampoos i know about are quite femimine( seeing as i'm a 15 year old female :P) so if u dont mind then I'd recommend..any sort of volumising shampoo( Bed head have quite a good range- but some of em can be expensive) also ive found that Timotei is amazing!!
Sorry about the English but Im welsh so i don't really use English that much. Anyway don't know if it helps but good luck! :P
it's really hard to tell without seeing before and after pictures. It could just be that the layers make it appear and feel thinner. Also if it's way shorter than you yoused to have it, it may be less curly.
Layers will make your hair thinner. My hair was kinda thick then i had it layered and it totally made it lighter =D
Maybe its not curly its too short atm? :x
It'd probably get restored if your hair is naturally curly anyways
i don't know why but the longer your air is the less curly its going to be thats what happended to mine i got it cut and it was soooo much curlier then it was before
i think that the layers will make your hair feel thinner as you grab it!
Wait for it to grow some more and get them cut out that will make it look thicker.
I need some advice,, please help?
Ok so my friends boyfriend just broke up with her but I've liked him since the beginning of the year. We were texting last night and I told him I kinda like him and he said he kinda likes me =)))
If him and I went out do you think my friend would be mad at me? I like him so much.
She doesn't know I like him.
Would you be mad?
Do you think she'll be?I need some advice,, please help?
Off limits. It's a golden rule. Even for adult women.
Girlfriends can last forever. Boyfriends rarely do. If she's a good friend, it's not worth it.
Even if you decide you don't care about her that much, others might have a really low opinion of you if you drop her and start seeing her ex.I need some advice,, please help?
You need to tell your friend that you like him and that you want to go out with him. But you should really wait until she gives you the okay to go out with him before you do. Trust me, you dont want to ruin a friendship over a guy. So just say to your friend ';hey i really like ___ and i want to go out with him, but if you dont want me to, i wont, I will wait until you tell me its okay for me to do so.';
she will respect you for being honest too.
Yep, friends' boyfriends are pretty much off limits. She won't just be mad, she'll hate you for it. Is he worth ending your friendship with her? Once you go there you can't go back. Plus they Just broke up, they could get back together, or he could cheat on you with her. Don't go there. I'm warning you. B/c you can't have both the guy and the friend.
see what your friend would think if someone liked her ex. but don't tell her that that someone is you. if she doesn't care, tell her you like him and see if she supports you. if she's still upset, don't mention it just yet. it all depends on how well your friend is taking the break up. good luck!
Pretty sure she'd be pissed. And if he wasn't good enough for your friend, why would he be good enough for you?
When you guys end up breaking up, you'll have one sacrificed a friend for a guy, and then you won't have the friend OR the guy.
He is off limits no matter how much you like him. Loyalty last and means much more than anything else. And if you were my friend i would be peeved. I mean come on they just broke up. The question is how would you feel if she did that to you.
You should talk to her about it. Nothing worse then loosing a friend over a boy. Just tell her you kinda like him and see what she says. I would only be mad if I was lied to.
If him and I went out do you think my friend would be mad at me? I like him so much.
She doesn't know I like him.
Would you be mad?
Do you think she'll be?I need some advice,, please help?
Off limits. It's a golden rule. Even for adult women.
Girlfriends can last forever. Boyfriends rarely do. If she's a good friend, it's not worth it.
Even if you decide you don't care about her that much, others might have a really low opinion of you if you drop her and start seeing her ex.I need some advice,, please help?
You need to tell your friend that you like him and that you want to go out with him. But you should really wait until she gives you the okay to go out with him before you do. Trust me, you dont want to ruin a friendship over a guy. So just say to your friend ';hey i really like ___ and i want to go out with him, but if you dont want me to, i wont, I will wait until you tell me its okay for me to do so.';
she will respect you for being honest too.
Yep, friends' boyfriends are pretty much off limits. She won't just be mad, she'll hate you for it. Is he worth ending your friendship with her? Once you go there you can't go back. Plus they Just broke up, they could get back together, or he could cheat on you with her. Don't go there. I'm warning you. B/c you can't have both the guy and the friend.
see what your friend would think if someone liked her ex. but don't tell her that that someone is you. if she doesn't care, tell her you like him and see if she supports you. if she's still upset, don't mention it just yet. it all depends on how well your friend is taking the break up. good luck!
Pretty sure she'd be pissed. And if he wasn't good enough for your friend, why would he be good enough for you?
When you guys end up breaking up, you'll have one sacrificed a friend for a guy, and then you won't have the friend OR the guy.
He is off limits no matter how much you like him. Loyalty last and means much more than anything else. And if you were my friend i would be peeved. I mean come on they just broke up. The question is how would you feel if she did that to you.
You should talk to her about it. Nothing worse then loosing a friend over a boy. Just tell her you kinda like him and see what she says. I would only be mad if I was lied to.
Help! Advice..?
I have a yeast infection and while showering yesterday, I accidently tore the skin between my labia and the outside of my vulva. How long will this take to heal? How can I avoid making it worse?Help! Advice..?
It shouldn't take too long. Try a salt bath. Don't scrub, touch or do anything in that area except apply treatment for the infection.Help! Advice..?
put some diaper rash cream on it and try not to irritate it more. don't wear tight pants for a few days.
It shouldn't take too long. Try a salt bath. Don't scrub, touch or do anything in that area except apply treatment for the infection.Help! Advice..?
put some diaper rash cream on it and try not to irritate it more. don't wear tight pants for a few days.
Help advice on getting a GIRLS ATTENTION!!!?
so this girl i see in the halls great looking, shes british and must be wealthy i saw her in her brother's class project riding a horse in full horse riding gear, I'm a ACDC shirt wearing metal head The only time i see her is in the hall, what is the best way to introduce myself
she has no clue who i am and i have no clue who she is except for she is this british guys sister
im in america to make this clear and the accent is a good thingHelp advice on getting a GIRLS ATTENTION!!!?
basic 101 on how to meet a girl this is obviously a school thing so find a way to sit near hear during lunch...you can run into her in the halls and casually introduce yourself or...you could draw attention to your self ( in a positive ) way say a couple of jokes around her and her friends and when you have made everyone laugh she will see that you are a pretty around the edge kid...she come talking to uHelp advice on getting a GIRLS ATTENTION!!!?
Ask her for some help on doing a paper on England. Tell her if she can help you, you'd like to repay her by taking her to a very nice restaurant.
Then say ';can we go to a nice museum or something where I can ask you a series of questions about England.'; See, this would actually be a first date with her, then you can turn on your charm and set up things for the ';payback'; at some nice restaurant.
Be cool, don't be a jerk, too funny, or goofy. Good luck.
it may take balls, but if you want to get her to notcie you try 'accidently' bumping into her. when she looks up at you just stare into her eyes for 10 seconds as if your mezmorized. then say your sorry and introduce yourself. she will notice you looking into her eyes and will take note that you thought she was good looking. good luck, go get her!
do something cheesy like bumping into her then trying to strike up a quick conversation or say a quick statement in passing like '; i need to get to class but can i give you my number so we can talk later?'; be nice and charming
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*Brit*
Just talk to her FFS. Anywhere you're remotely close to her, walk up say ';Hi, how are you doing?'; if you need to follow on, ask what class shes got next, ask her what shes doing/did for lunch, ask her what shes doing tonight/this weekend/next week (if she says nothing, you're in).
Improvise, if you bomb you bomb, but you tried.jabbawockeez mask
she has no clue who i am and i have no clue who she is except for she is this british guys sister
im in america to make this clear and the accent is a good thingHelp advice on getting a GIRLS ATTENTION!!!?
basic 101 on how to meet a girl this is obviously a school thing so find a way to sit near hear during lunch...you can run into her in the halls and casually introduce yourself or...you could draw attention to your self ( in a positive ) way say a couple of jokes around her and her friends and when you have made everyone laugh she will see that you are a pretty around the edge kid...she come talking to uHelp advice on getting a GIRLS ATTENTION!!!?
Ask her for some help on doing a paper on England. Tell her if she can help you, you'd like to repay her by taking her to a very nice restaurant.
Then say ';can we go to a nice museum or something where I can ask you a series of questions about England.'; See, this would actually be a first date with her, then you can turn on your charm and set up things for the ';payback'; at some nice restaurant.
Be cool, don't be a jerk, too funny, or goofy. Good luck.
it may take balls, but if you want to get her to notcie you try 'accidently' bumping into her. when she looks up at you just stare into her eyes for 10 seconds as if your mezmorized. then say your sorry and introduce yourself. she will notice you looking into her eyes and will take note that you thought she was good looking. good luck, go get her!
do something cheesy like bumping into her then trying to strike up a quick conversation or say a quick statement in passing like '; i need to get to class but can i give you my number so we can talk later?'; be nice and charming
^
|-----------------------And don't lie.
*Brit*
Just talk to her FFS. Anywhere you're remotely close to her, walk up say ';Hi, how are you doing?'; if you need to follow on, ask what class shes got next, ask her what shes doing/did for lunch, ask her what shes doing tonight/this weekend/next week (if she says nothing, you're in).
Improvise, if you bomb you bomb, but you tried.
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Ok I have a gf that won't have sex with me because she said it's way to big for her. It's not like it's her first time. we start kissing and hugging %26amp; rubbing and she gets naked and everything but once were in bed and I pull it out she hops out of bed like Lightning disappears.
What should I do?
with out forcing her?
Don't worry where in college were old enough?Help advice? Plz read asap?
She is afraid of the intimacy! And there could be many reasons for this many of which have nothing to do with you! A bad experience you are unaware of or a good experience but she doesn't want to be a sleep around type of girl.
Don't force her, but you could make her feel real good and then she may just be begging you!Help advice? Plz read asap?
Dwayne:
She loves you so take your time with her that is all I am saying. Her not wanting to have sex may have something to do with your size, but it is my belief that she needs to be ready for you because in truth (excpet gargantia size - like a horse) most men fit most women. We're made way!
Oh yeah, it's just wayyyyy to big. Right. And that fish you caught last weekend? That was, what, 3 feet long?
What she was talking about was your ego, not your penis.
If you force her, it's RAPE.
You can do jail time for that.
Think about it.
You need to find you a new girlfriend because she has told you that your to big for her. So stop trying
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What should I do?
with out forcing her?
Don't worry where in college were old enough?Help advice? Plz read asap?
She is afraid of the intimacy! And there could be many reasons for this many of which have nothing to do with you! A bad experience you are unaware of or a good experience but she doesn't want to be a sleep around type of girl.
Don't force her, but you could make her feel real good and then she may just be begging you!Help advice? Plz read asap?
Dwayne:
She loves you so take your time with her that is all I am saying. Her not wanting to have sex may have something to do with your size, but it is my belief that she needs to be ready for you because in truth (excpet gargantia size - like a horse) most men fit most women. We're made way!
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Oh yeah, it's just wayyyyy to big. Right. And that fish you caught last weekend? That was, what, 3 feet long?
What she was talking about was your ego, not your penis.
If you force her, it's RAPE.
You can do jail time for that.
Think about it.
You need to find you a new girlfriend because she has told you that your to big for her. So stop trying
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HELP! Advice please!?
I recently had a very awkward phone conversation with my boyfriend of 2 months. I asked him if he wanted to hang out soon. He said he wasn't sure if he could because he was in and out of town for the next couple of weeks. I am also going on a trip for a while and he promised he would call me as soon as I get back. However, he also mentioned that ';this didn't really seem to be working'; referring to our relationship but he didn't say anything else. Does he want to break up with me or not?HELP! Advice please!?
Yeah, although he could just be irritated that he has a 'girlfriend' that he doesn't really get to see much right now and that's frustrating for him, he most likely just wants to break up and doesn't know how to just say it. He was probably hoping that you would take his lead and agree with him that it's not working and break up.HELP! Advice please!?
Yes he does but it sounds like he's afraid to hurt your feelings.
Yeah, he wants to break up with you.
yes
yes, i think that he's breaking up with you.
it seems like he does but if you want it to work than bring it up and ask him what he problem was and how you could try fix it together.
dont wait till he leaves talk to him as soon as possible
Yeah, although he could just be irritated that he has a 'girlfriend' that he doesn't really get to see much right now and that's frustrating for him, he most likely just wants to break up and doesn't know how to just say it. He was probably hoping that you would take his lead and agree with him that it's not working and break up.HELP! Advice please!?
Yes he does but it sounds like he's afraid to hurt your feelings.
Yeah, he wants to break up with you.
yes
yes, i think that he's breaking up with you.
it seems like he does but if you want it to work than bring it up and ask him what he problem was and how you could try fix it together.
dont wait till he leaves talk to him as soon as possible
Help/advice?
im looking to travel to italy from the uk, i will be going through the alps(A2/E35)
im looking for a stunning scenery photo opputinity
any helpHelp/advice?
Anywhere you can take stunning pictures - just open up your eyes/camera...Help/advice?
IF you're going through Switzerland they have a lot of travel offers that would suit you. They have offers fit for a back packer's budget to those who travel in style.
Take the Golden panoranic train. They have very wide windows and pass through a scenic route. check offers on the route in any SBB and Tourist Information office or the Swiss tourism web site . Make sure you have extra batteries and a lot of room in your memory stick.
Enjoy.
im looking for a stunning scenery photo opputinity
any helpHelp/advice?
Anywhere you can take stunning pictures - just open up your eyes/camera...Help/advice?
IF you're going through Switzerland they have a lot of travel offers that would suit you. They have offers fit for a back packer's budget to those who travel in style.
Take the Golden panoranic train. They have very wide windows and pass through a scenic route. check offers on the route in any SBB and Tourist Information office or the Swiss tourism web site . Make sure you have extra batteries and a lot of room in your memory stick.
Enjoy.
Please Help! I am wanting to go to UCLA and need advice?
I am a 10th grader in high school and i want to go to UCLA. Over the summer I am taking classes at Santa Monica College and I wanted to know what i should take?
Thanks in advance!Please Help! I am wanting to go to UCLA and need advice?
depends
Thanks in advance!Please Help! I am wanting to go to UCLA and need advice?
depends
Help advice needed!!!!!?
There Is this guy that I have a huge crush on and then there is another guy that my best friend likes and the guy she likes ,likes me and now I think I am falling for him.....what do I do?Help advice needed!!!!!?
Depends on who is more important to you-your best friend or the guy. I'll bet you lose one or the other.
Depends on who is more important to you-your best friend or the guy. I'll bet you lose one or the other.
NEED advice please help me with?
I am going to lunch with my dad today, I have decided that I am going to come out to him. How do I tell him I'm bi, what do I say? no homophobic commentsNEED advice please help me with?
Dad I have something I want to tell you, something you should know, I am Bisexual.NEED advice please help me with?
So much depends on your age. Are you still living at home? Do you depend on their finances for school? Have your folks shown any anti gay attitude?
I wish you had written here before. I would have suggested calling PFLAG.ORG for info to present to your dad. You can still do that if you go to their website and download some pamphlets. That way you'll be able to share some info with them and if there is a chapter near you, it's a great place to help them adjust to your news. It is a loving supportive org that helps families and friends be better at staying close.
Please take some info for your dad. It will help.Not all parents have a good reaction to the news. I would have also suggested that if you still lived at home that you have some gay adult friends in your corner, have a safe place to go if the coming out goes badly, and to also have a bag packed just in case. I wish you well. Coming out can be frightening but once you're out, the big weight has been lifted off your shoulders. (I came out at 27-- knowing I was different but got married anyway and it was a bummer. I went to the gay center in my city and came out feeling so much more alive.) I wish you a good day and a happy coming out with your dad. Have a great life.
oh gosh, i feel for u, that's not gonna be easy!
NOT guaranteeing he won't act the way u dnt want him to anyway, but maybe u should start by reminding him of the times he said u were his little boy and that he loved u no matter what. U should ask him whether he meant it, and as a reply to his answer say that u r both about to find out. then break it to him.
oh man, best of luck!! hope he turns out a cool dad :) (...)
Maybe telling him in a public place, isn't a good idea. You never know how he's gonna react. But if you do tell him, just sit down with him, and just make the conversation go towards the subject of sexuality, ease him into it, then just say the words ';I'm bi';.
Good luck.
just be straight foward. tell him youd like to tell him somthing you think he should know. youll feel better once you get it off your chest. he may see you in a completely different way , but you are what you are and can only do so much. so ya be open and go in with guns blazin
what worked for me and my friend was....
i told him about this amazing movie i watched called ';prayers for bobby'; and they get interested
expainwhat it's abot and say it really meant a lot to you
then they wll ask ifur lgbt.... if they dont then just say it as it is
before you talk to him, do y our homework first. Go to this website and have some facts and numbers ready to give him. You will be amazed!
www.g0ys.org (that is spelled with a zero not an ';o'; )
Good luck.
Yeah I would just start a nice conversation. Then once you feel the time is right you can tell him.
I know this is what everyone else said but that is the best way.
Good Luck and Hope I Helped!!!
My advice would be to tell him while your at home, because you don't know what his reaction will be. But just say you have to talk to him about something important in private. Then just tell him. Good luck!
Find the right words, if you want to tell him it means you trust him.
Since you do, tell him that... Get into his heart as you go out.
Just tell him straight out and flat, with no Hmmmms and AHHHHS.
just start up a nice convo first. Then later break it to him. He should love you enough to not carejabbawockeez mask
Dad I have something I want to tell you, something you should know, I am Bisexual.NEED advice please help me with?
So much depends on your age. Are you still living at home? Do you depend on their finances for school? Have your folks shown any anti gay attitude?
I wish you had written here before. I would have suggested calling PFLAG.ORG for info to present to your dad. You can still do that if you go to their website and download some pamphlets. That way you'll be able to share some info with them and if there is a chapter near you, it's a great place to help them adjust to your news. It is a loving supportive org that helps families and friends be better at staying close.
Please take some info for your dad. It will help.Not all parents have a good reaction to the news. I would have also suggested that if you still lived at home that you have some gay adult friends in your corner, have a safe place to go if the coming out goes badly, and to also have a bag packed just in case. I wish you well. Coming out can be frightening but once you're out, the big weight has been lifted off your shoulders. (I came out at 27-- knowing I was different but got married anyway and it was a bummer. I went to the gay center in my city and came out feeling so much more alive.) I wish you a good day and a happy coming out with your dad. Have a great life.
oh gosh, i feel for u, that's not gonna be easy!
NOT guaranteeing he won't act the way u dnt want him to anyway, but maybe u should start by reminding him of the times he said u were his little boy and that he loved u no matter what. U should ask him whether he meant it, and as a reply to his answer say that u r both about to find out. then break it to him.
oh man, best of luck!! hope he turns out a cool dad :) (...)
Maybe telling him in a public place, isn't a good idea. You never know how he's gonna react. But if you do tell him, just sit down with him, and just make the conversation go towards the subject of sexuality, ease him into it, then just say the words ';I'm bi';.
Good luck.
just be straight foward. tell him youd like to tell him somthing you think he should know. youll feel better once you get it off your chest. he may see you in a completely different way , but you are what you are and can only do so much. so ya be open and go in with guns blazin
what worked for me and my friend was....
i told him about this amazing movie i watched called ';prayers for bobby'; and they get interested
expainwhat it's abot and say it really meant a lot to you
then they wll ask ifur lgbt.... if they dont then just say it as it is
before you talk to him, do y our homework first. Go to this website and have some facts and numbers ready to give him. You will be amazed!
www.g0ys.org (that is spelled with a zero not an ';o'; )
Good luck.
Yeah I would just start a nice conversation. Then once you feel the time is right you can tell him.
I know this is what everyone else said but that is the best way.
Good Luck and Hope I Helped!!!
My advice would be to tell him while your at home, because you don't know what his reaction will be. But just say you have to talk to him about something important in private. Then just tell him. Good luck!
Find the right words, if you want to tell him it means you trust him.
Since you do, tell him that... Get into his heart as you go out.
Just tell him straight out and flat, with no Hmmmms and AHHHHS.
just start up a nice convo first. Then later break it to him. He should love you enough to not care
HELP?? ADViCE WHAT U THiNK? GUYS EXPECiALLY HELP ME?
so my bf broke up with me a few weeks ago; but sometimes i catch him looking at me (oh and he has a gf) me and him are still friends as well. Like today i ran up to my (guy) friends for a group hig and i saw him walking buy staring at me in kind of a way he looked at me when we were together but not so much the same look.......also when hes hugging his girl and i was in his sight and he was lookingg at me with my guy friend.
DOES HE LiKE ME OR THiNK iM RETARTED????HELP?? ADViCE WHAT U THiNK? GUYS EXPECiALLY HELP ME?
move on.. he's lame
DOES HE LiKE ME OR THiNK iM RETARTED????HELP?? ADViCE WHAT U THiNK? GUYS EXPECiALLY HELP ME?
move on.. he's lame
What should I do about this (advice needed please help)?
Ok, so there's this guy that I know and he's obnoxious. I found him very annoying to be around, until recently. He actually isn't that bad once you get to know him, but now that I made this huge wall between us, I don't see how we could ever be friends. What should I do?What should I do about this (advice needed please help)?
just treat him like u would with
a person u first meet. uhm be
all like, u want to hang out with
buch of groups of mates one
weekened and go to the movies
so ur wondering if he wants to come ?
if he says yes then thats a little
bit of the wall broken. hope i helped.What should I do about this (advice needed please help)?
Treat him properly this time. Make amends in your action by being 'friendly' to him. If you want, you can apologize to him for treating him badly in the past.
just treat him like u would with
a person u first meet. uhm be
all like, u want to hang out with
buch of groups of mates one
weekened and go to the movies
so ur wondering if he wants to come ?
if he says yes then thats a little
bit of the wall broken. hope i helped.What should I do about this (advice needed please help)?
Treat him properly this time. Make amends in your action by being 'friendly' to him. If you want, you can apologize to him for treating him badly in the past.
Beauty advice? please help! 10 pts best answer.?
i have a large, flat nose. it is flatter than large and has a large surface area.
anyways, what can i do to make my nose appear smaller?
what kind of hairstyle/haircut will work with it?
special ways 2 apply makeup to slim my nose down?
PLEASE: do not say the following.....
1. get plastic surgery
2. emphasize ur eyes by putting alot of mascara onBeauty advice? please help! 10 pts best answer.?
Apply a bronzer on the sides of your nose. Blend well. Add a lighter cream base color down the bridge of your nose.
This will create the illusion of a smaller nose using contour and shading.
It is important to play up your eyes to draw attention upward.
Most importantly...blend...blend...blend.Beauty advice? please help! 10 pts best answer.?
When you have short hair it is more easy to see. i have herad of nose cream and make- up called clean and clear witch says it help noses. eyes. u can try this or be happy wit your nose. long hair to the side helps........
To de-emphasis your nose, part your hair to one side. I think some bronzer or contour blush colour on the sides of your nose - make sure to blend well - would make it look narrower (fake shadows)
straighten your hair inward....and git layers...and side bangs
Check out this website I found. I am sure you can use a different brand of make up than the author uses. I think the type she uses is really expensive.
Get some layers in you hair that can take the attention up instead of in the center of your face. Don't go with a straight, center part hair cut.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2030105_illusion鈥?/a>
volumize your hair so your face looks smaller
NEVER PULL IT BACK
DONT STRAIGHTEN IT
you should curl it
anyways, what can i do to make my nose appear smaller?
what kind of hairstyle/haircut will work with it?
special ways 2 apply makeup to slim my nose down?
PLEASE: do not say the following.....
1. get plastic surgery
2. emphasize ur eyes by putting alot of mascara onBeauty advice? please help! 10 pts best answer.?
Apply a bronzer on the sides of your nose. Blend well. Add a lighter cream base color down the bridge of your nose.
This will create the illusion of a smaller nose using contour and shading.
It is important to play up your eyes to draw attention upward.
Most importantly...blend...blend...blend.Beauty advice? please help! 10 pts best answer.?
When you have short hair it is more easy to see. i have herad of nose cream and make- up called clean and clear witch says it help noses. eyes. u can try this or be happy wit your nose. long hair to the side helps........
To de-emphasis your nose, part your hair to one side. I think some bronzer or contour blush colour on the sides of your nose - make sure to blend well - would make it look narrower (fake shadows)
straighten your hair inward....and git layers...and side bangs
Check out this website I found. I am sure you can use a different brand of make up than the author uses. I think the type she uses is really expensive.
Get some layers in you hair that can take the attention up instead of in the center of your face. Don't go with a straight, center part hair cut.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2030105_illusion鈥?/a>
volumize your hair so your face looks smaller
NEVER PULL IT BACK
DONT STRAIGHTEN IT
you should curl it
Myspace advice plz help
how do i get my mom to let me get a myspace she thinks im going 2 stabbed or raped but i really want one and its not like i'd give away personal information or talk 2 ppl i don't knowMyspace advice plz help
honestly i dont think myspace is that dangerous.. yes there is personal information but myspace can now be private or have passwords for friends requests. talk to your mom %26amp; tell her that you're responsible %26amp; you know not meet people from the internet.
%26amp; or make one %26amp; dont let her know. put it under a fake name. %26amp; only give it to your close friends.Myspace advice plz help
tell her that you can set ur profile on private and only accept adds from people you know. and on the account settings, they have it so that the person adding you must know ur e-mail address or last name if you want that option, that is. :]
if your mom still makes descions for u maybe you shouldnt have a my space
honestly i dont think myspace is that dangerous.. yes there is personal information but myspace can now be private or have passwords for friends requests. talk to your mom %26amp; tell her that you're responsible %26amp; you know not meet people from the internet.
%26amp; or make one %26amp; dont let her know. put it under a fake name. %26amp; only give it to your close friends.Myspace advice plz help
tell her that you can set ur profile on private and only accept adds from people you know. and on the account settings, they have it so that the person adding you must know ur e-mail address or last name if you want that option, that is. :]
if your mom still makes descions for u maybe you shouldnt have a my space
Scorpio advice please help me?
i need to know what type of a person a scorpio female is??Scorpio advice please help me?
I am a scorpio
we can be really good friends, never ending and always trying to find somthing fun to do, will think of you when shopping, etc.
unless you show yourself as selfish or uninterested, then she will just be friends, you will have good days but she won't put forth what she can.
she can be moody, combative, funny, silly, she is a good listener and will try to find the help you seek, she can be very cold and make you feel very small, she can be sadistic, even ruthless.
but all these are shown to the people who bring them out.
you are creative and friendly she shall she be
you are selfish and scheming and use it against her, then you will get it back.
if she feels you are boring and useless you will be tossed aside quickly but nicely.
she has deep feelings and does belive in the goodness of life, but she can also be very mistrusting to someone who has crossed her.
looking for a scorpio friend, then you better be one as well.
looking for a scorpio mate, you better be either a good lay or very loyal.Scorpio advice please help me?
Passionate, kind, caring, very open but not intellectually inclined, they like to have fun and get into trouble unless they are earthbound for some reason
Scorpio women happen to be great people, but if you're frustrated or upset with her and don't know how or want to tell her just ignore her, they have a deep need to know about how people are really feeling, even if they don't always want to know the truth when it comes down to it.
They can be very sensitive but not always outwardly expressive, and generally loyal but will only burn any bridges if they feel no desire to turn back. Sometimes they feel if you care enough you'll make a grand gestures, and they will do the same for you.
The very LEAST shallow or wasteful persons of the Zodiac, imo. My best friends as a lil girl were Scorpio, and they still are to this day. Great people by far, however they do have a certain propensity for drama.
Some Scorpio women can be moody, sensitive, intense, jealous and cold. They can be passionate, sweet, kind and nice at certain times. They will let you know what they are feeling.
I am a scorpio
we can be really good friends, never ending and always trying to find somthing fun to do, will think of you when shopping, etc.
unless you show yourself as selfish or uninterested, then she will just be friends, you will have good days but she won't put forth what she can.
she can be moody, combative, funny, silly, she is a good listener and will try to find the help you seek, she can be very cold and make you feel very small, she can be sadistic, even ruthless.
but all these are shown to the people who bring them out.
you are creative and friendly she shall she be
you are selfish and scheming and use it against her, then you will get it back.
if she feels you are boring and useless you will be tossed aside quickly but nicely.
she has deep feelings and does belive in the goodness of life, but she can also be very mistrusting to someone who has crossed her.
looking for a scorpio friend, then you better be one as well.
looking for a scorpio mate, you better be either a good lay or very loyal.Scorpio advice please help me?
Passionate, kind, caring, very open but not intellectually inclined, they like to have fun and get into trouble unless they are earthbound for some reason
Scorpio women happen to be great people, but if you're frustrated or upset with her and don't know how or want to tell her just ignore her, they have a deep need to know about how people are really feeling, even if they don't always want to know the truth when it comes down to it.
They can be very sensitive but not always outwardly expressive, and generally loyal but will only burn any bridges if they feel no desire to turn back. Sometimes they feel if you care enough you'll make a grand gestures, and they will do the same for you.
The very LEAST shallow or wasteful persons of the Zodiac, imo. My best friends as a lil girl were Scorpio, and they still are to this day. Great people by far, however they do have a certain propensity for drama.
Some Scorpio women can be moody, sensitive, intense, jealous and cold. They can be passionate, sweet, kind and nice at certain times. They will let you know what they are feeling.
Help Need advice about my puppy?
My puppy got kicked in the face by my neighbor and his eye is swollen really big.. What do I do, I already called the police but will my puppy eye go down???Help Need advice about my puppy?
You NEED to take your puppy to the vet WITHOUT your girlfriend (If i remember correctly, she thinks the vet will hurt the pup?!)
Tell your girlfriend that the vet will FIX the dog and it's people like your neighbor who are cruel and NOT vets. Vets are doctors. Your dog needs a VET!Help Need advice about my puppy?
just give it a pain killer. it should go down in a couple of days. if not take it to vet, i meet a dog who lost its eye and part of its skull and did just fine. but each case will be different
Take him to the vet!!!!! He needs medical attention or might go blind or get deadly infection..you can press charges and the neighbor will probably have to pay for the vet bills.
Take your dog to the vet immediately - your vet will have an emergency number to call. If the eye is swollen he could loose it and/or there could be brain damage.
Take the dog to the veterinarian!
Awww so sad.. His eye should go down on its on..
That's awful, people are so cruel. Bring it to the vet just to make sure!
oh no take him to Vet to check on himjabbawockeez mask
You NEED to take your puppy to the vet WITHOUT your girlfriend (If i remember correctly, she thinks the vet will hurt the pup?!)
Tell your girlfriend that the vet will FIX the dog and it's people like your neighbor who are cruel and NOT vets. Vets are doctors. Your dog needs a VET!Help Need advice about my puppy?
just give it a pain killer. it should go down in a couple of days. if not take it to vet, i meet a dog who lost its eye and part of its skull and did just fine. but each case will be different
Take him to the vet!!!!! He needs medical attention or might go blind or get deadly infection..you can press charges and the neighbor will probably have to pay for the vet bills.
Take your dog to the vet immediately - your vet will have an emergency number to call. If the eye is swollen he could loose it and/or there could be brain damage.
Take the dog to the veterinarian!
Awww so sad.. His eye should go down on its on..
That's awful, people are so cruel. Bring it to the vet just to make sure!
oh no take him to Vet to check on him
For a long time I have tried to get funding for my new business. The banks won't help. Advice please?
My idea is to train as a deep sea diver and harvest fish farts to sell to the spirit level industryFor a long time I have tried to get funding for my new business. The banks won't help. Advice please?
Good luck to you. Do fish farts smell and are they noisy? These are the important questions.
If you are under 30 you qualify for 拢1000 grant for going self-employed. I tried to be a professional gambler and put my 拢1,000 on the 4.55 at Ascot on horse number 4. At 4.59 I went bust, but I enjoyed my 10 minutes as a professional gambler anyway.For a long time I have tried to get funding for my new business. The banks won't help. Advice please?
5 ways to get funding;
1- sleep more often (u got to have a dream)
2- come to yahoo answers everyday (seek advice worldwide)
3- treat everyone roughly (compete)
4- listen to jazz music (relax sometimes)
5- give me 10 points (lending o helping people).
send them a live shark
That's the best freaking joke I've read all day!
*read with a heavy dose of sarcasm*
oooookay...
ok that is a far fetched idea of a bussiness but you can go to www.govermentgrants.com apply for a grant and get it then u have the money you need to start ur bussiness.
Good luck to you. Do fish farts smell and are they noisy? These are the important questions.
If you are under 30 you qualify for 拢1000 grant for going self-employed. I tried to be a professional gambler and put my 拢1,000 on the 4.55 at Ascot on horse number 4. At 4.59 I went bust, but I enjoyed my 10 minutes as a professional gambler anyway.For a long time I have tried to get funding for my new business. The banks won't help. Advice please?
5 ways to get funding;
1- sleep more often (u got to have a dream)
2- come to yahoo answers everyday (seek advice worldwide)
3- treat everyone roughly (compete)
4- listen to jazz music (relax sometimes)
5- give me 10 points (lending o helping people).
send them a live shark
That's the best freaking joke I've read all day!
*read with a heavy dose of sarcasm*
oooookay...
ok that is a far fetched idea of a bussiness but you can go to www.govermentgrants.com apply for a grant and get it then u have the money you need to start ur bussiness.
Any advice would help thanks alot?
ok so i havent gotten my period since may 28 and i was supposed to start on june and nothing yet. is their any way that i could touch my stomache and notice if im pregnant or something. and im ttc my 2nd baby or could i already be pregnantAny advice would help thanks alot?
Why not just take a HPT and get the result?
Why not just take a HPT and get the result?
Help! Advice about the fit of a dress, and tailoring advice?
I'm going to two weddings in one day. The 1st is at 10am at a bay downtown, and the 2nd is at 6pm at a winery...
I'm 25 about 2 months postpartum, 5'2'; and 135lbs. I have a bigger bust and my frame is sorta boxy since giving birth.
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3035361?tn=s鈥?/a>
ANYWAYS...I'm just wondering for all the fashion experts out there:
1.Does this dress look like it'll hide bulgyness, a big bust and a not so defined waist? Or will it just look like I'm still pregnant?
2.Would it be possible to shorten this dress with out it costing an arm and a leg?
I really appreciate any advice!Help! Advice about the fit of a dress, and tailoring advice?
wear some spanx if you want to hide bulgyness
it will probably cost the same amount you paid for it to shorten it
I'm 25 about 2 months postpartum, 5'2'; and 135lbs. I have a bigger bust and my frame is sorta boxy since giving birth.
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3035361?tn=s鈥?/a>
ANYWAYS...I'm just wondering for all the fashion experts out there:
1.Does this dress look like it'll hide bulgyness, a big bust and a not so defined waist? Or will it just look like I'm still pregnant?
2.Would it be possible to shorten this dress with out it costing an arm and a leg?
I really appreciate any advice!Help! Advice about the fit of a dress, and tailoring advice?
wear some spanx if you want to hide bulgyness
it will probably cost the same amount you paid for it to shorten it
Can i get some girls help/advice?
im in 9th grade, kinda shy and i like this girl who sits next to me in 7th period but i dont know what to say or if she likes me
she ask for my help a lot but i just assume that because im the only person she sits next to
can someone give some advice on what to say or tell me some ways that might indicate that she likes meCan i get some girls help/advice?
Well first of all, do not throw yourself at her too fast. There was guy who did this to me when I was in tenth grade. From one day to the next he practically loved me and I never spoke a word with him that would make him think that I liked him (it was a scary experience). A nice ice breaker that I always think is nice asking her how her day was. When someone asks me this, it makes me think that person cares. That will probably lead to her asking you how your day was and things can go on from there. And about finding out if she likes you, all girls are different so there is really no way to find out if a girl likes you unless she tells you or one of her friends decides to blab. I hope this works for you and good luck with the girl. I am pretty sure you will be fine =)Can i get some girls help/advice?
';Do you like me?'; No I'm kidding. Just talk to her, but start off easy. Like, ';hey how are you doing?'; If she looks sad, trust me, she'll love it. Or if just randomly you want to talk to her, say ';Hey (Place Name Here)'; and go with he flow.
she ask for my help a lot but i just assume that because im the only person she sits next to
can someone give some advice on what to say or tell me some ways that might indicate that she likes meCan i get some girls help/advice?
Well first of all, do not throw yourself at her too fast. There was guy who did this to me when I was in tenth grade. From one day to the next he practically loved me and I never spoke a word with him that would make him think that I liked him (it was a scary experience). A nice ice breaker that I always think is nice asking her how her day was. When someone asks me this, it makes me think that person cares. That will probably lead to her asking you how your day was and things can go on from there. And about finding out if she likes you, all girls are different so there is really no way to find out if a girl likes you unless she tells you or one of her friends decides to blab. I hope this works for you and good luck with the girl. I am pretty sure you will be fine =)Can i get some girls help/advice?
';Do you like me?'; No I'm kidding. Just talk to her, but start off easy. Like, ';hey how are you doing?'; If she looks sad, trust me, she'll love it. Or if just randomly you want to talk to her, say ';Hey (Place Name Here)'; and go with he flow.
HELP!!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!?
well my friend asked this guy that i like's friend if he liked anyone and he said no. we thought it was wierd cuz he flirts with this 1 girl and me (later i realised boy don't tell their friends who they like, right?). oh btw, i went up to him with my friends yesterday and he wasn't really talking. my friend said hey ad he didn't reply, then i said hi and he smiled. im pretty sure thats some sort of sign, am i right? do u have any tips for me to try and make him like me more than a friend. and im pretty sure he's like at the stage of deciding to like me more than a friend or less, or just as a friend. so do u have anytips on making my guyfriend a boyfriend? remember im sorta shy but i can go up to him with other people. thanks so muchHELP!!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!?
um..maybe first you have to have the guts to go to him alone first coz if u gonna flirt with and say to him u like him more than a firedn, so guys r a bit shy in front of other girls maybe u could go to him alone. talk to him. joke with him. after some days you could show ur love by signs and stuff and maybe he will tell you he likes u if he gets to be with you more alone.HELP!!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!?
I would ask him to walk somewhere with you......and then just stand there and stare into his eyes.....seriously. %26amp; you may be suprised on how much that could tell a person. Now also keep in mind that you dont want to do it in a way to where it looks scary. If he asks you why are u starring at me, or what? Just stare at him with a smile, and say nothing.....:) If you can be brave enough to do this, i believe you can take it up to the next level!. Good luck!
you need to flirt from a sistance smiel and wave to him or make soem kind of eyecontact from a whike away and if your shy try going places with a group of yours and his mates...or find out what he is doing on the weekend and go there with your friends!
You seem to be the type of person who makes assumptin very quickly.
If he really liked you, he would have told our friend that he did like someone.
Guys are nice, maybe he was have a bad day.
You have to take it slow.
yup sounds like he likes you, i use my friends to talk to my crushes so its not so awkward so whenever there near that person or talking to that person i always go over to my friend and try and get his attention
i know how you feel i was the same way with my guy friend ken but you should go up to him with a reliable friend and just ask him out like yo something simple (movie, hang out, etc)
Well first off to be safe, don't get your hopes up too high!
And second of all, if he's at that point then just talk to him more. If you have classes with him then walk with him there and such. Mostly at this point all you can do is spend time with him. Making him laugh doesn't hurt also! Start looking ';hot';, break out of your shell when you're around him, and strut your walk. Member, it doesn't help if your friends are always with you when you talk to him..
Best of luck
um..maybe first you have to have the guts to go to him alone first coz if u gonna flirt with and say to him u like him more than a firedn, so guys r a bit shy in front of other girls maybe u could go to him alone. talk to him. joke with him. after some days you could show ur love by signs and stuff and maybe he will tell you he likes u if he gets to be with you more alone.HELP!!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!?
I would ask him to walk somewhere with you......and then just stand there and stare into his eyes.....seriously. %26amp; you may be suprised on how much that could tell a person. Now also keep in mind that you dont want to do it in a way to where it looks scary. If he asks you why are u starring at me, or what? Just stare at him with a smile, and say nothing.....:) If you can be brave enough to do this, i believe you can take it up to the next level!. Good luck!
you need to flirt from a sistance smiel and wave to him or make soem kind of eyecontact from a whike away and if your shy try going places with a group of yours and his mates...or find out what he is doing on the weekend and go there with your friends!
You seem to be the type of person who makes assumptin very quickly.
If he really liked you, he would have told our friend that he did like someone.
Guys are nice, maybe he was have a bad day.
You have to take it slow.
yup sounds like he likes you, i use my friends to talk to my crushes so its not so awkward so whenever there near that person or talking to that person i always go over to my friend and try and get his attention
i know how you feel i was the same way with my guy friend ken but you should go up to him with a reliable friend and just ask him out like yo something simple (movie, hang out, etc)
Well first off to be safe, don't get your hopes up too high!
And second of all, if he's at that point then just talk to him more. If you have classes with him then walk with him there and such. Mostly at this point all you can do is spend time with him. Making him laugh doesn't hurt also! Start looking ';hot';, break out of your shell when you're around him, and strut your walk. Member, it doesn't help if your friends are always with you when you talk to him..
Best of luck
Legal advice and help. Detective skills a plus.?
My husband hasn't filed for divorce yet. He's been gone about a month. I know, for a fact, that he has bought or is renting a new home for himself, his mistress, and her children.
I also know, for a fact, that he has purchased her a vehicle.
My problem is, I need proof. How can I legally obtain this? I know his basic information. (ssn and dl number)
I can't afford to hire a private investigator.
I have tried some of the search sites, but come up empty and only find information about our house.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.Legal advice and help. Detective skills a plus.?
What I would suggest is to gather up as much information as you can. For example try to get his new address, vehicle license plate and anything else that would help you. Go to his work address and make some casual inquires but be discreet. Don't engage him and don't let him aware of your presence.
You will probably need to do some leg work to gather the information that you need.
Then I would contact a divorce attorney, (you sound as if you don't already have one), some of which will give you a half hour over the phone or at their office.
That is your best recourse because you are going to need an attorney to finalize the divorce.Legal advice and help. Detective skills a plus.?
Would you like to answer a few questions so we can START to give relevant information?
Like:
Did either of you file for a legal separation?
In what state is this occurring?
EDITED BASED ON ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
Well, based on the additional information, if he is only renting the home, there is nothing you can do about it. He is allowed to have a residence in which to live.
Also, because the two of you are still married, he has just as much right to funds in the joint account (or his account) as you do. Again, marital property.
If, on the other hand, he is using funds that were pre-marital and remaind so without conversion during the marriage, then it's a moot point. Those funds and anything purchased with them, remain pre-marital assets.
Now, if he has purchased a home and/or other things in HER name then you will need to prove it by either subpoena of his financial records ONCE divorce is filed, or by the aid of a forensic accountant.
The point here is that until a legal separation or divorce is filed, he is free to spend his money any way he wishes, just as you are.And even if you can show that marital funds were used you would also have to prove he purchased the items and not simply rented or leased.
Also, these issues have nothing whatsoever to do with divorce but MAY have a bearing on the eventual property settlement if you can prove that he converted marital assets pre-divorce.
The point is, this is not a simple situation and the eventual outcome and alternatives under law depend on first filing for divorce and second, on what can be proven.
You can submit your issue in the following website and a lawyer will contact you within 24hrs. Don't worry about their charges, Its only $1/day. I think this you can afford. Here is the link
http://www.usalegalcare.com/
Good luck
As a Lawyer, I'd like to help, but as Hexeliebe says, you'll need to give more info.
If you are in the US, sorry I can't help!
Speak to an attorney. Most, if not all wont' charge you for the first visit. Since your still legally married, he can be held accountable for the bill for your attorney. In addition, YOU should file for divorce, not wait for him to do it. Again, if he has the sole income, he'll be footing the bill for that as well. Then during the divorce proceedings, tell your attorney of all the items that your husband has purchased for his new girl friend. That is all considered community property, and you will get your share of it. I'd also get a protection from abuse order, which your attorney can also get you, to keep your soon to be exhusband from harrassing your, threatening you, etc.jabbawockeez mask
I also know, for a fact, that he has purchased her a vehicle.
My problem is, I need proof. How can I legally obtain this? I know his basic information. (ssn and dl number)
I can't afford to hire a private investigator.
I have tried some of the search sites, but come up empty and only find information about our house.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.Legal advice and help. Detective skills a plus.?
What I would suggest is to gather up as much information as you can. For example try to get his new address, vehicle license plate and anything else that would help you. Go to his work address and make some casual inquires but be discreet. Don't engage him and don't let him aware of your presence.
You will probably need to do some leg work to gather the information that you need.
Then I would contact a divorce attorney, (you sound as if you don't already have one), some of which will give you a half hour over the phone or at their office.
That is your best recourse because you are going to need an attorney to finalize the divorce.Legal advice and help. Detective skills a plus.?
Would you like to answer a few questions so we can START to give relevant information?
Like:
Did either of you file for a legal separation?
In what state is this occurring?
EDITED BASED ON ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
Well, based on the additional information, if he is only renting the home, there is nothing you can do about it. He is allowed to have a residence in which to live.
Also, because the two of you are still married, he has just as much right to funds in the joint account (or his account) as you do. Again, marital property.
If, on the other hand, he is using funds that were pre-marital and remaind so without conversion during the marriage, then it's a moot point. Those funds and anything purchased with them, remain pre-marital assets.
Now, if he has purchased a home and/or other things in HER name then you will need to prove it by either subpoena of his financial records ONCE divorce is filed, or by the aid of a forensic accountant.
The point here is that until a legal separation or divorce is filed, he is free to spend his money any way he wishes, just as you are.And even if you can show that marital funds were used you would also have to prove he purchased the items and not simply rented or leased.
Also, these issues have nothing whatsoever to do with divorce but MAY have a bearing on the eventual property settlement if you can prove that he converted marital assets pre-divorce.
The point is, this is not a simple situation and the eventual outcome and alternatives under law depend on first filing for divorce and second, on what can be proven.
You can submit your issue in the following website and a lawyer will contact you within 24hrs. Don't worry about their charges, Its only $1/day. I think this you can afford. Here is the link
http://www.usalegalcare.com/
Good luck
As a Lawyer, I'd like to help, but as Hexeliebe says, you'll need to give more info.
If you are in the US, sorry I can't help!
Speak to an attorney. Most, if not all wont' charge you for the first visit. Since your still legally married, he can be held accountable for the bill for your attorney. In addition, YOU should file for divorce, not wait for him to do it. Again, if he has the sole income, he'll be footing the bill for that as well. Then during the divorce proceedings, tell your attorney of all the items that your husband has purchased for his new girl friend. That is all considered community property, and you will get your share of it. I'd also get a protection from abuse order, which your attorney can also get you, to keep your soon to be exhusband from harrassing your, threatening you, etc.
Help! Advice to help someone with bipolar disorder?
Hi this might be a long one so if you don't know about bipolar disorder or aren't willing to give advice don't waste your time.
My friend ';Sally';s mom is named ';Susan';. Susan has bipolar disorder which has been diagnosed by a doctor. Her particular condition does not include much depression, but it does include periods of mania. She talks fast, gets all hyped up, and has the other's symptoms of a bipolor's manic phase. A few years ago she was hospitalized for a while for her condition. Since then, there haven't been any serious issues. A week ago, a family friend who had seen Susan lately called my mom. She notified my mom that Susan had seemed very hyped up when she saw her. She was very concerned and said she hadnt seen her this bad before. My mom notified a close friend and neighbor of Susan's to be on the look out and be aware of the manic phase Susan was going through.
I feel like I have some responsibility to help Susan and Sally get through this. My mom also wants to help but she isn't as well informed as I am about this disease. I have learned about many mental health disorders in my health classes. My main question here is what should I do or tell my mom to do to help Susan? Her husband knows but apparently he only makes things worse. Also, what should I do to comfort Sally? She doesnt know that I know about her mom's condition and I think she might feel embarassed if I knew. We are really close friends, but she has no siblings to go through this with. I feel like I should have her over my house more often so she doesn't feel quite so lonely by herself.
Any thoughts?Help! Advice to help someone with bipolar disorder?
Susan has got to have her medications adjusted or even changed before her mania gets out of control. So I think the first concern would be to make sure Susan goes to her pdoc. As for helping Sally, I would just be there for her and be a true friend. Maybe you should tell her you know that her mom is bipolar and tell her you understand and that it is nothing to be ashamed off. Due your best to make her feel better about the whole thing.
Good luck and my heart goes out to Sally and Susan! You are a great person and a great friend - I wish the world had more people such as yourself!Help! Advice to help someone with bipolar disorder?
have her see a doctor again.
All you can really do is be there. I mean that is all that your mom and you can do is be there. Sometimes that is all people really need is for someone to be there for them you know. I do have a question though if you don't mind answering it? Is she on any medication, and if she is has she been taking? If those answers are no then she needs to get on some type of medication and to see a doctor. If she has medication she needs to take it you know what I mean. I think that it is really awesome that you and your mom are willingly to be there during this time. A lot of people choose to ignore it. Help your friend become more educated about the condition. The more that you know the more that you will be able to help. Good luck
My friend ';Sally';s mom is named ';Susan';. Susan has bipolar disorder which has been diagnosed by a doctor. Her particular condition does not include much depression, but it does include periods of mania. She talks fast, gets all hyped up, and has the other's symptoms of a bipolor's manic phase. A few years ago she was hospitalized for a while for her condition. Since then, there haven't been any serious issues. A week ago, a family friend who had seen Susan lately called my mom. She notified my mom that Susan had seemed very hyped up when she saw her. She was very concerned and said she hadnt seen her this bad before. My mom notified a close friend and neighbor of Susan's to be on the look out and be aware of the manic phase Susan was going through.
I feel like I have some responsibility to help Susan and Sally get through this. My mom also wants to help but she isn't as well informed as I am about this disease. I have learned about many mental health disorders in my health classes. My main question here is what should I do or tell my mom to do to help Susan? Her husband knows but apparently he only makes things worse. Also, what should I do to comfort Sally? She doesnt know that I know about her mom's condition and I think she might feel embarassed if I knew. We are really close friends, but she has no siblings to go through this with. I feel like I should have her over my house more often so she doesn't feel quite so lonely by herself.
Any thoughts?Help! Advice to help someone with bipolar disorder?
Susan has got to have her medications adjusted or even changed before her mania gets out of control. So I think the first concern would be to make sure Susan goes to her pdoc. As for helping Sally, I would just be there for her and be a true friend. Maybe you should tell her you know that her mom is bipolar and tell her you understand and that it is nothing to be ashamed off. Due your best to make her feel better about the whole thing.
Good luck and my heart goes out to Sally and Susan! You are a great person and a great friend - I wish the world had more people such as yourself!Help! Advice to help someone with bipolar disorder?
have her see a doctor again.
All you can really do is be there. I mean that is all that your mom and you can do is be there. Sometimes that is all people really need is for someone to be there for them you know. I do have a question though if you don't mind answering it? Is she on any medication, and if she is has she been taking? If those answers are no then she needs to get on some type of medication and to see a doctor. If she has medication she needs to take it you know what I mean. I think that it is really awesome that you and your mom are willingly to be there during this time. A lot of people choose to ignore it. Help your friend become more educated about the condition. The more that you know the more that you will be able to help. Good luck
Panty advice please help?
I recently bought the vs cotton panties from victoria secret... how can i wash them so that they still are in good shape and still are hella comfortable and soft =DPanty advice please help?
check the label!! it always has the best advice :-)Panty advice please help?
lol
I usually put my delicates in a mesh bag when I wash them so they don't get all beat up, but still get clean. Oh and be sure to use a dryer sheet. Hope I helped!
check the label!! it always has the best advice :-)Panty advice please help?
lol
I usually put my delicates in a mesh bag when I wash them so they don't get all beat up, but still get clean. Oh and be sure to use a dryer sheet. Hope I helped!
Help/advice needed with sick dog. Our dog is very disoriented and is wobbly. Vets have no anwsers HELP!!?
Yesterday our dog urinated in the house 3 times, ( he never does ) all day he was laggy, we went out to dinner, put him in his crate. Upon arriving home his crate had a pool of urine. He went out side for a few minutes, after coming in he had almost no sense of balance, (looked as if he were high or intoxicated ) We rushed him to the vet hospital. Where he put up a extreme fight going with the techs. ( so he has energy stored ) they ran blood test. ( said all were ok ) ( they have no clue as to what is wrong ) We left him for the night (they had a IV in him ) the wife picked him up today. He's still urinating in the house but now his head is shaking periodically and he's stil unbalanced..... Please any insight or help is greatly appreciated..... He's a part of our family. We did find a empty firework tube that he had chewed apart ( from a morter style fire work - my wife thinks thats it ) again any help pleaseHelp/advice needed with sick dog. Our dog is very disoriented and is wobbly. Vets have no anwsers HELP!!?
Wow, scary situation and even worse that the Evets couldn't figure it out either. A couple things come to my mind ( I am NOT a vet nor do I have any medical training, just dog experience) and are things I would think about and try to rule out.
1st ~ Petit Mal - This is the seizure that is often missed by pet owners. Tremours, excessive drooling, whining, loss of balance, and often spontaneous urination characterize this type of seizure, which is just as serious a seizure as the Grand Mal.
2nd ~ Antifreeze poisoning or other poison that causes neurological symptoms (although the vet should have tested for that) especially if sign appear after being outdoors.
3rd ~ vestibular disease (but frequent abnormal urination is NOT a symptom of it)
4th ~ Stroke ~ Yes, dogs have strokes and a stroke should be considered when one or more of these symptoms is observed; Loss of balance, head tilt, lethargy, blindness, abrupt change in behavior (such as not understanding commands or responding when called), Loss of Bowel and Bladder Control. Since the complex system of communication between the brain and the rest of the body is affected with a stroke, the dog may not sense the need to urinate or defecate. The body will therefore perform these functions without conscious control.
Your dogs symptoms could fit a wide range of issues. I would suggest taking your dog to another vet and make sure everything in this list is checked as possible issues. Good luck
Wow, scary situation and even worse that the Evets couldn't figure it out either. A couple things come to my mind ( I am NOT a vet nor do I have any medical training, just dog experience) and are things I would think about and try to rule out.
1st ~ Petit Mal - This is the seizure that is often missed by pet owners. Tremours, excessive drooling, whining, loss of balance, and often spontaneous urination characterize this type of seizure, which is just as serious a seizure as the Grand Mal.
2nd ~ Antifreeze poisoning or other poison that causes neurological symptoms (although the vet should have tested for that) especially if sign appear after being outdoors.
3rd ~ vestibular disease (but frequent abnormal urination is NOT a symptom of it)
4th ~ Stroke ~ Yes, dogs have strokes and a stroke should be considered when one or more of these symptoms is observed; Loss of balance, head tilt, lethargy, blindness, abrupt change in behavior (such as not understanding commands or responding when called), Loss of Bowel and Bladder Control. Since the complex system of communication between the brain and the rest of the body is affected with a stroke, the dog may not sense the need to urinate or defecate. The body will therefore perform these functions without conscious control.
Your dogs symptoms could fit a wide range of issues. I would suggest taking your dog to another vet and make sure everything in this list is checked as possible issues. Good luck
Help! Need advice on good flat iron...please?
ok.. i need HELP! can someone please recommend a good flat iron for thick and kinda dry hair? not looking to spend $$$, but something that does the job and doesn't damage my hair...Help! Need advice on good flat iron...please?
you cant really get a good straightener under $100. the best ones are like 150-200. try chi, herstyler, or they have some good ones at sephora. but if your lucky you can try marshalls surprisingly. someitmes they have brand name straighteners there like chi. but anyway you need to get a ceramic straightener.
good luck!!Help! Need advice on good flat iron...please?
Really good ($ not so much): The Chi
http://www.chiretail.com/tools/irons/fla鈥?/a>
Best for the price: The Remmington Wet 2 Straight, this is the straightener i own and fell in love with it, i got it for a knockoff price of 25$ and its the best straightener i have used for a long time, it has many different heat settings so you can choose the temperature you would like tha won't damage your hair.
http://www.stylewithremington.com/
Anything made by BabyLiss or Tresemme, just make sure it
-is CERAMIC, not aluminium
-has adjustable temperature
Most are under $30, some are under $20
Sedu and CHI, There abit pricy your not really going to find a good under $100, If you buy on of those you have to use a heat protective:) GOOD LUCK:)
CHI , thats the brand.
you cant really get a good straightener under $100. the best ones are like 150-200. try chi, herstyler, or they have some good ones at sephora. but if your lucky you can try marshalls surprisingly. someitmes they have brand name straighteners there like chi. but anyway you need to get a ceramic straightener.
good luck!!Help! Need advice on good flat iron...please?
Really good ($ not so much): The Chi
http://www.chiretail.com/tools/irons/fla鈥?/a>
Best for the price: The Remmington Wet 2 Straight, this is the straightener i own and fell in love with it, i got it for a knockoff price of 25$ and its the best straightener i have used for a long time, it has many different heat settings so you can choose the temperature you would like tha won't damage your hair.
http://www.stylewithremington.com/
Anything made by BabyLiss or Tresemme, just make sure it
-is CERAMIC, not aluminium
-has adjustable temperature
Most are under $30, some are under $20
Sedu and CHI, There abit pricy your not really going to find a good under $100, If you buy on of those you have to use a heat protective:) GOOD LUCK:)
CHI , thats the brand.
May you advice me please,help me to find a theme?
Salam aalaykom, our english teacher ask us to choose a theme and make researches about it, to present it in class, may you help me to choose that theme, propose me themes please, I will choose.
I'm sorry for the mistakes but I'm not english,Thank's a lotMay you advice me please,help me to find a theme?
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Global economic crisis. every tom dick and harry on the road talks abt it
I'm sorry for the mistakes but I'm not english,Thank's a lotMay you advice me please,help me to find a theme?
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Over 300 Quality Writing articles, information and resources
http://www.anecdote.org/May you advice me please,help me to find a theme?
global warming? or something interesting, i believe you can find one yourself :) choose something you love....
Global economic crisis. every tom dick and harry on the road talks abt it
Ok so yea hi again my friend is depressed and i need some advice to help her?
Depression is a chemical in balance in the brain and can be treated by a Dr. Depression is an awful feeling and no one can do anything for someone who has it. It has to come from the person who is depressed to seek help. Just be there for her and try to get her to see a Dr. I promise you she will feel so much better about herself. I know this from experience. I was her at one time. I did not want to see a Dr. for this problem, but I had no other choice. I am glad I did and I feel so much better these days about life. Take care!!Ok so yea hi again my friend is depressed and i need some advice to help her?
Calmly talk to her and try to confront her.
perharps talk abt the problem she is facing and find a solution to this problem :)Ok so yea hi again my friend is depressed and i need some advice to help her?
Start by telling her that you know something is wrong, then offer your help when she is ready for it. Don't push.jabbawockeez mask
Calmly talk to her and try to confront her.
perharps talk abt the problem she is facing and find a solution to this problem :)Ok so yea hi again my friend is depressed and i need some advice to help her?
Start by telling her that you know something is wrong, then offer your help when she is ready for it. Don't push.
Need advice, please help?
I'm trying to rise above my family's condition and build a good life for myself. I was accepted into a prestigious university filled with classy, educated students and I feel very out of place. Other than being polite, speaking well, and working hard, what tips do you have that might help me fit in and be classier? I'm a 20 year old woman. Thank you.Need advice, please help?
Transitioning into an unfamiliar surrounding based on class can be just as jarring as if you had moved to another country. I've struggled this somewhat myself in college.
You might want to read this book called ';Limbo: Blue Collar Roots, White Collar Dreams.'; The guy who wrote it came from a working class background and describes a lot of the struggles that people have when they are suddenly trying to fit in with people from a higher economic/social class when they go to college.
Transitioning into an unfamiliar surrounding based on class can be just as jarring as if you had moved to another country. I've struggled this somewhat myself in college.
You might want to read this book called ';Limbo: Blue Collar Roots, White Collar Dreams.'; The guy who wrote it came from a working class background and describes a lot of the struggles that people have when they are suddenly trying to fit in with people from a higher economic/social class when they go to college.
I Need Help, Advice.?
This is a long story and i';ll try to shorten it up. My entire life i have never had anyone that has loved me. My grandparents on my mothers side, i would do anything for, but it and i was never good enough. mainly i think because they hated my father. they always compaired me to my cousin, who had everything, her dad was a professional and made alot of money. My dad was a drug addict that never worked and was always on the wrong side of the law. my dad never believed i wasn't his kid, because i was so much lighter hair and skined than my brothers, we are italian. My mother never was happy with me cause i was first born, and first born should be a son. I have always done things and been there for my mother, bent over backwards to please her,but it was never enough or not good enough. i am married now and have a child she is a teenager and i have tried to give her everything i never had. i married a man that cares more about money than anyone or anything else, my mom is the same way.I Need Help, Advice.?
time to pack and goI Need Help, Advice.?
Your a victim of your own circumstances, you've tried to not be like your parents but you have taken it to the opposite extreme which has put you in a similar predicament as if you
would have been without providing enough, by providing so much more outside your means it has created the atmosphere that creates tension, lies and deceit within the family unit...all from good intentions, there lies a problem within such intentions that is not clearly seen by you that creates dysfunction from the decisions you make. Unfortunately, I believe things are going to get worse before they can get better....the truth of your financial situation will come out one way or the other, which is not going to be taken well...however, I feel there is a silver lining to all good intentions, you just need to learn how to direct them so it creates positives in your life as well as others, the truth must be told, seek professional help to make the necessary adjustments within your decision making and I believe you'll still have a happy ever after...good luck.
Sounds like you dont need your mom tell your Kid that she can see her grandma if she wants but u dont want ne thing to do with her or your dad Your husband sounds to be a man who cares about you for the extra 0's a month... I just say if you dont straighten up im gone
I think as far as your husband goes if he is actually treating you badly its time to leave. I think you may have gotten with him because you were looking for someone to love you the way you think they should, and since you didnt get the kind of love you needed from your family you rushed into something with someone looking for that love, and ended up with what you got because of it. When you know you dont have the money to spend on things even though your only doing it to better your daughters life you dont go racking up cradit card bills because it makes everything worse as you found out. My parents did the same crap with thier bills, and now cant keep up because they never change thier spending habbits which is the first thing that has to change. Depending on how bad your bills are I would suggest looking into claiming bankruptsy. It will kill your credit score for a couple years, but will take care of all those bills you cant keep up with, once you file for bankruptsy DO NOT go spending money like you have been doing, etc, or you will end up right where you are again. You husband didnt love you in the way he should if he seeing you wearing raggy clothes dont help you out with getting new ones, or maybe thats your fault because he has no idea about the bills you have which if he catches you lying to him about even if you get them taken care of he probibly will leave you not because you lost control of your bills like that, but because you lied about it instead of coming to him for help before they got that out of control so really look into that bankruptsy thing before you make it worse. If your husband isnt caring towards you then you really shouldnt be with him anyway, and maybe should consider moving on from that. Your daughter would understand that especially being as old as she is if you talk to her about it, she probibly already senses things arent right between you guys anyway. You have to think about how just because you never really got everything you wanted when you were younger that it doesnt mean you have to give your daughter everything. All she really needs is your love, and support which is all you really needed when you were her age. You will find someone someday that loves you the way you diserve to be loved. My parents are just as negative as yours were, but I dont let that stop me, or make me feel like I aint loved because I know someone out there loves me, or at least will in the way I need them too. I also know that even with how negative my family can be that they still somewhere deep down love me, and have thier reasons for being so hard on me so I dont hold it against them, or thats how I keep it from getting to me. Did you ever discuss with any of them how they made you feel chances are that they may not have even knew they were making you feel like that in the first place, and that they are just so used to being so negative did it without realizing how it made you feel, or made you think they felt of you. I think maybe some councilling will help you work through all of this if you cant talk to anyone else about what your going through emotionally because everyone needs to be able to turn to someone when they have things like this on thier mind, everyone should have someone to talk to. The next thing once you get your bills straightend out I would consider learning how to communicate better with your family, and people you are supposed to love/love you because until you can talk to them your always going to feel the way you do.. communication is needed in any relationship regaurdless of its friends, family, and especially your husband.. without communication with him your marriage is really doomed to fail, or you just going to be unhappy for the rest of your life. I really wish you the best, and hope everything works out for you because I know this situation has to be hard, I see some of it with my family. Its made me a stronger person, and tought me what things not to do. Hope this helps.
time to pack and goI Need Help, Advice.?
Your a victim of your own circumstances, you've tried to not be like your parents but you have taken it to the opposite extreme which has put you in a similar predicament as if you
would have been without providing enough, by providing so much more outside your means it has created the atmosphere that creates tension, lies and deceit within the family unit...all from good intentions, there lies a problem within such intentions that is not clearly seen by you that creates dysfunction from the decisions you make. Unfortunately, I believe things are going to get worse before they can get better....the truth of your financial situation will come out one way or the other, which is not going to be taken well...however, I feel there is a silver lining to all good intentions, you just need to learn how to direct them so it creates positives in your life as well as others, the truth must be told, seek professional help to make the necessary adjustments within your decision making and I believe you'll still have a happy ever after...good luck.
Sounds like you dont need your mom tell your Kid that she can see her grandma if she wants but u dont want ne thing to do with her or your dad Your husband sounds to be a man who cares about you for the extra 0's a month... I just say if you dont straighten up im gone
I think as far as your husband goes if he is actually treating you badly its time to leave. I think you may have gotten with him because you were looking for someone to love you the way you think they should, and since you didnt get the kind of love you needed from your family you rushed into something with someone looking for that love, and ended up with what you got because of it. When you know you dont have the money to spend on things even though your only doing it to better your daughters life you dont go racking up cradit card bills because it makes everything worse as you found out. My parents did the same crap with thier bills, and now cant keep up because they never change thier spending habbits which is the first thing that has to change. Depending on how bad your bills are I would suggest looking into claiming bankruptsy. It will kill your credit score for a couple years, but will take care of all those bills you cant keep up with, once you file for bankruptsy DO NOT go spending money like you have been doing, etc, or you will end up right where you are again. You husband didnt love you in the way he should if he seeing you wearing raggy clothes dont help you out with getting new ones, or maybe thats your fault because he has no idea about the bills you have which if he catches you lying to him about even if you get them taken care of he probibly will leave you not because you lost control of your bills like that, but because you lied about it instead of coming to him for help before they got that out of control so really look into that bankruptsy thing before you make it worse. If your husband isnt caring towards you then you really shouldnt be with him anyway, and maybe should consider moving on from that. Your daughter would understand that especially being as old as she is if you talk to her about it, she probibly already senses things arent right between you guys anyway. You have to think about how just because you never really got everything you wanted when you were younger that it doesnt mean you have to give your daughter everything. All she really needs is your love, and support which is all you really needed when you were her age. You will find someone someday that loves you the way you diserve to be loved. My parents are just as negative as yours were, but I dont let that stop me, or make me feel like I aint loved because I know someone out there loves me, or at least will in the way I need them too. I also know that even with how negative my family can be that they still somewhere deep down love me, and have thier reasons for being so hard on me so I dont hold it against them, or thats how I keep it from getting to me. Did you ever discuss with any of them how they made you feel chances are that they may not have even knew they were making you feel like that in the first place, and that they are just so used to being so negative did it without realizing how it made you feel, or made you think they felt of you. I think maybe some councilling will help you work through all of this if you cant talk to anyone else about what your going through emotionally because everyone needs to be able to turn to someone when they have things like this on thier mind, everyone should have someone to talk to. The next thing once you get your bills straightend out I would consider learning how to communicate better with your family, and people you are supposed to love/love you because until you can talk to them your always going to feel the way you do.. communication is needed in any relationship regaurdless of its friends, family, and especially your husband.. without communication with him your marriage is really doomed to fail, or you just going to be unhappy for the rest of your life. I really wish you the best, and hope everything works out for you because I know this situation has to be hard, I see some of it with my family. Its made me a stronger person, and tought me what things not to do. Hope this helps.
Ok so...help advice..fast?
So my boyfriend is in a play and he has to kiss a girll....and ugh i feel...idk... i'm not near himr ight now i'm like 2 hours away and he kissed the girl tonight in the play..and i'm realy jealous like..just thinking that iw asnt the last one that he kissed...idk...i feel horrible..help?
and on top of that i keep flipping out on him...i just ugh!!:(Ok so...help advice..fast?
yeah...i wouldnt be too happy either... tell him youre upset. maybe it wouldnt bug you so bad if he knew why you were flippin. if he doesnt understand that...he's a jerk and you deserve better!Ok so...help advice..fast?
i would probably be feeling the same way.
Talk to him about it and make sure he didnt feel anything for this girl.
good luck!
yeah i use to have the same problem whn my ex was an acctress and thats y shes an ex
SO what? its a play... actors kiss actresses some times... doesnt mean anything. its called 'acting', which is all fake... just get over it. he chose you for a reason, so what if he kissed a girl in a play? quit spazzing out on him if you want to keep him
A character on stage is one thing, an actual person is another. Being in a lot of plays where I have to play a romantically involved person (while having a boyfriend at the same time), I noticed that one doesn't even think about anything except performing on the stage. There are absolutely no romantic feelings for that scene partner offstage.
I can assure you that your boyfriend is probably the same. It's natural to feel a tinge of jealousy, but just remember that it's you who he calls, and you who he talks to at night. It's you who he loves; the character he plays on stage has no say in his relationship with you.
Well I'm a guy, but I really understand how you feel and it would be hard for me too explain why. I know it sucks, but don't do anything crazy. Try not to think about it at all, that's really all you can do. :(
u know i'd feel the same but u cant be like that being like that might ruin a good thing u have going for u. i know its hard but is it worth losing him over something he might not even be doing? just calm down and relax.
OMFG i cant even believe you are asking this! Its no big deal! a kiss? what does that mean NOTHING!!! Its not like shes giving him oral sex~!!!
I understand how u feel. I think you are feeling a normal feeling that just means you care about him and you want his lips only on yours! Don't listen to those telling you that its just a kiss and your being silly...You are not being silly. However, since it was a kiss in a play and he wasn't going out on you than try not to be so hard on him. It will cause ur relationship with him to fail. This is something that you really need to think about. Can you handle him doing this..If you can not than yu may need to find a different boyfriend. I hate to say that but I mean you cant go round miserable. Think long and hard and decide if you can handle this if it happens again. If you decide you don't want to lose him than please deal with it as best you can and try not to give him a hard time. Best of luck to you!
If you really trust him and you truly believe that he wouldnt cheat..quit freaking out. He's just doing his job.
and on top of that i keep flipping out on him...i just ugh!!:(Ok so...help advice..fast?
yeah...i wouldnt be too happy either... tell him youre upset. maybe it wouldnt bug you so bad if he knew why you were flippin. if he doesnt understand that...he's a jerk and you deserve better!Ok so...help advice..fast?
i would probably be feeling the same way.
Talk to him about it and make sure he didnt feel anything for this girl.
good luck!
yeah i use to have the same problem whn my ex was an acctress and thats y shes an ex
SO what? its a play... actors kiss actresses some times... doesnt mean anything. its called 'acting', which is all fake... just get over it. he chose you for a reason, so what if he kissed a girl in a play? quit spazzing out on him if you want to keep him
A character on stage is one thing, an actual person is another. Being in a lot of plays where I have to play a romantically involved person (while having a boyfriend at the same time), I noticed that one doesn't even think about anything except performing on the stage. There are absolutely no romantic feelings for that scene partner offstage.
I can assure you that your boyfriend is probably the same. It's natural to feel a tinge of jealousy, but just remember that it's you who he calls, and you who he talks to at night. It's you who he loves; the character he plays on stage has no say in his relationship with you.
Well I'm a guy, but I really understand how you feel and it would be hard for me too explain why. I know it sucks, but don't do anything crazy. Try not to think about it at all, that's really all you can do. :(
u know i'd feel the same but u cant be like that being like that might ruin a good thing u have going for u. i know its hard but is it worth losing him over something he might not even be doing? just calm down and relax.
OMFG i cant even believe you are asking this! Its no big deal! a kiss? what does that mean NOTHING!!! Its not like shes giving him oral sex~!!!
I understand how u feel. I think you are feeling a normal feeling that just means you care about him and you want his lips only on yours! Don't listen to those telling you that its just a kiss and your being silly...You are not being silly. However, since it was a kiss in a play and he wasn't going out on you than try not to be so hard on him. It will cause ur relationship with him to fail. This is something that you really need to think about. Can you handle him doing this..If you can not than yu may need to find a different boyfriend. I hate to say that but I mean you cant go round miserable. Think long and hard and decide if you can handle this if it happens again. If you decide you don't want to lose him than please deal with it as best you can and try not to give him a hard time. Best of luck to you!
If you really trust him and you truly believe that he wouldnt cheat..quit freaking out. He's just doing his job.
Help! I need some advice for getting a grown mans' attention?
I'm going to a NKOTB concert and need to get Donnie Wahlberg's attention...so, I got this LED Scrolling Belt Buckle. It can have to 6 messages...would should those 6 messages say?Help! I need some advice for getting a grown mans' attention?
';my Vah-jay-jay has just been rejuvenated just for you';
';you're hotter than Marky Mark';
';i want your Hangin' Tough';
';i am a virgin';Help! I need some advice for getting a grown mans' attention?
Donnie I have a bearded taco for you to snack on
Hey Donnie hairPie buffet open just for you
Property of Donnie^
Donnie wanna play hide the salami
Donnie I have a muff do you want to dive
Donnie I will blow your……………………………………..mind
Donnie I hear you can't last 8 seconds.
I'm the bull lets see
my muffin needs someone to bit it.
I love you long time
I go down on the first date.
1. I swallow
2. I swallow
3. I swallow
4. I swallow
5. I swallow
6. I swallow
That pretty much gets 'em every time :)
LOL.
';Now serving all-you-can-eat crabs and cottage cheese';
';Party in my pants and Donnie is invited';
';Hit this s-hit below the belt, Donnie Wahlberg';
Oh
Oh
Oh
Oh
Oh
Hangin tough
I am always available for you donny
Just wear a lacy white bra under a sheer black top, and stand under a black light.
Or throw your thong at him.
DonniePuckMe
';I want your Crabs!';
';Mark said you have a small dlck, prove me wrong';
';I wanna hang tough off your junk';
';Tiffany and Debbie Gibson are waiting for us in my van';
';I'm Really A Man'; should get his attention....
whip em out that's what every other chick does... so if you don't he's just gonna look at the other 40 girls who are :) lol
listen to muffin
';my Vah-jay-jay has just been rejuvenated just for you';
';you're hotter than Marky Mark';
';i want your Hangin' Tough';
';i am a virgin';Help! I need some advice for getting a grown mans' attention?
Donnie I have a bearded taco for you to snack on
Hey Donnie hairPie buffet open just for you
Property of Donnie^
Donnie wanna play hide the salami
Donnie I have a muff do you want to dive
Donnie I will blow your……………………………………..mind
Donnie I hear you can't last 8 seconds.
I'm the bull lets see
my muffin needs someone to bit it.
I love you long time
I go down on the first date.
1. I swallow
2. I swallow
3. I swallow
4. I swallow
5. I swallow
6. I swallow
That pretty much gets 'em every time :)
LOL.
';Now serving all-you-can-eat crabs and cottage cheese';
';Party in my pants and Donnie is invited';
';Hit this s-hit below the belt, Donnie Wahlberg';
Oh
Oh
Oh
Oh
Oh
Hangin tough
I am always available for you donny
Just wear a lacy white bra under a sheer black top, and stand under a black light.
Or throw your thong at him.
DonniePuckMe
';I want your Crabs!';
';Mark said you have a small dlck, prove me wrong';
';I wanna hang tough off your junk';
';Tiffany and Debbie Gibson are waiting for us in my van';
';I'm Really A Man'; should get his attention....
whip em out that's what every other chick does... so if you don't he's just gonna look at the other 40 girls who are :) lol
listen to muffin
Im need help/ advice?
ok i hav a BIG DANCE at my skool 2morrow
rumors went around that i asked this certin girl 2 go w/ me
i had already decided that i waz goin alone
now she wonders if we r goin 2gether r not
am i screwed?Im need help/ advice?
Talk to her. (: Good Luckjabbawockeez mask
rumors went around that i asked this certin girl 2 go w/ me
i had already decided that i waz goin alone
now she wonders if we r goin 2gether r not
am i screwed?Im need help/ advice?
Talk to her. (: Good Luck
I need help.. advice.. something..?
i think i dont love my brother anymore..
he's 17 set in his ways and a brat..
im expecting a baby..
but to him he rather see a funeral then a birth..
words from his mouth..
what should i do??
talking gets me with a stressed baby and him joy..
he likes to argue and i cant..I need help.. advice.. something..?
i don't know if you believe in God or not, and you may not like this answer, but i am going to post it anyway.
you may not think you love your brother anymore, and with the situation you described i can totally understand how you feel, but God designed us to love everyone. That doesn't mean we have to like them. In fact, we could totally despise them. But he is your brother and weather you realize it or not, deep down inside a small part of you still loves him. I will be praying for your situation. I hope things work out.I need help.. advice.. something..?
Deep down inside you still lover your brother, you just probably dont feel like it. I cant stand my sister shes constantly tryin to start a fight with me, thinks shes a know it all, thinks shes better than me. It's to the point to where I don't really talk to her anymore, but I do still love her deep down inside even though I dont feel like it. Maybe you could talk to your parents about your brother. Have a family meeting with your parents and your brother. Seeing you cant get stressed cause the baby, I would think this is the better way this way you can talk to our parents and they can yell at your brother instead of you. I hope things work out and your brothers changes and stops. Conrats with the baby also! They are such a joy!
he's still your bro so love him anyhow, but love him from a distance. You have enough stuff going on and don't need to be stressed out.
he's 17 set in his ways and a brat..
im expecting a baby..
but to him he rather see a funeral then a birth..
words from his mouth..
what should i do??
talking gets me with a stressed baby and him joy..
he likes to argue and i cant..I need help.. advice.. something..?
i don't know if you believe in God or not, and you may not like this answer, but i am going to post it anyway.
you may not think you love your brother anymore, and with the situation you described i can totally understand how you feel, but God designed us to love everyone. That doesn't mean we have to like them. In fact, we could totally despise them. But he is your brother and weather you realize it or not, deep down inside a small part of you still loves him. I will be praying for your situation. I hope things work out.I need help.. advice.. something..?
Deep down inside you still lover your brother, you just probably dont feel like it. I cant stand my sister shes constantly tryin to start a fight with me, thinks shes a know it all, thinks shes better than me. It's to the point to where I don't really talk to her anymore, but I do still love her deep down inside even though I dont feel like it. Maybe you could talk to your parents about your brother. Have a family meeting with your parents and your brother. Seeing you cant get stressed cause the baby, I would think this is the better way this way you can talk to our parents and they can yell at your brother instead of you. I hope things work out and your brothers changes and stops. Conrats with the baby also! They are such a joy!
he's still your bro so love him anyhow, but love him from a distance. You have enough stuff going on and don't need to be stressed out.
I need help, ADVICE?!?
Okay,
I currently have $144.
I want to buy an iPod Nano - $150
I want to buy a season pass to an amusment park- $98
I want to by colonge - $30
Clothes- $40
I know i can't get all of them, but what would be the best way to handle this? I really want all of them equally, but i just don't know what to choose.
any opinions?I need help, ADVICE?!?
Looking at our current economy, I would say buy what ever you find to be the most important and necessary; what is more useful and what could you get the most use out of. However, if you really want them all, then I am sure you could save $174 dollars more by perhaps saving about $20-$25 dollars or more a week. Good Luck, hope this helps!I need help, ADVICE?!?
If you want them all equally, then getting the cheapest ones gives you the most instant gratification for your dollar. Buy the clothes and colonge, leaving you $74 left over. Then build up for the amusement park pass.
This leaves you with no iPod though. Since the colonge is a short-lived thing, you could scratch that. So's the amusement park pass. From scratching those two you still have to make $46 before you get clothes and iPod.
ok ur a guy so clothes and colonge... a lil u know lol pass
season pass to an amusement park and a ipod nano...
so would u rather ride the superman or listen to crank dat superman your choice me personally id just make a penny into 6 bux and get that amusement park
quit being a girl u have plenty of clothes and you dont need colonge. if you already have a working ipod/mp3 player than u dont need a new one. go with the amusement park pass.
$138.00 is the answer so you can get the clothes and the amusement park season pass
save for an ipod unless you have one...it's life is longer then the amusement park... buy cloths only if you need them.
I currently have $144.
I want to buy an iPod Nano - $150
I want to buy a season pass to an amusment park- $98
I want to by colonge - $30
Clothes- $40
I know i can't get all of them, but what would be the best way to handle this? I really want all of them equally, but i just don't know what to choose.
any opinions?I need help, ADVICE?!?
Looking at our current economy, I would say buy what ever you find to be the most important and necessary; what is more useful and what could you get the most use out of. However, if you really want them all, then I am sure you could save $174 dollars more by perhaps saving about $20-$25 dollars or more a week. Good Luck, hope this helps!I need help, ADVICE?!?
If you want them all equally, then getting the cheapest ones gives you the most instant gratification for your dollar. Buy the clothes and colonge, leaving you $74 left over. Then build up for the amusement park pass.
This leaves you with no iPod though. Since the colonge is a short-lived thing, you could scratch that. So's the amusement park pass. From scratching those two you still have to make $46 before you get clothes and iPod.
ok ur a guy so clothes and colonge... a lil u know lol pass
season pass to an amusement park and a ipod nano...
so would u rather ride the superman or listen to crank dat superman your choice me personally id just make a penny into 6 bux and get that amusement park
quit being a girl u have plenty of clothes and you dont need colonge. if you already have a working ipod/mp3 player than u dont need a new one. go with the amusement park pass.
$138.00 is the answer so you can get the clothes and the amusement park season pass
save for an ipod unless you have one...it's life is longer then the amusement park... buy cloths only if you need them.
Can advice please. English lawbreaker moving to Texas, can anyone help?
My boyfriend and I are moving to Austin, Texas to start a new life. We both have jobs arranged and a swell house. However, my boyfriend is a criminal and whilst I love him, he's always in trouble. He's been involved in drug dealing, drug trafficking, violence, theft and fraud. I must say he's good at what he does. I just dont want him to get into trouble in Texas. How can he beat the laws while still providing a luxurious lifestyle that im accustomed to over here in England?Can advice please. English lawbreaker moving to Texas, can anyone help?
You need to be very careful here in Texas, honey. We don't play around with stuff like that. Why can't he just get a normal job like everyone else? You know that if he gets busted, you can go to jail too, right? Here, they put the women away as well. since you know about the drug dealing, you're an accomplice. I would just be legit if you're moving here.
You need to be very careful here in Texas, honey. We don't play around with stuff like that. Why can't he just get a normal job like everyone else? You know that if he gets busted, you can go to jail too, right? Here, they put the women away as well. since you know about the drug dealing, you're an accomplice. I would just be legit if you're moving here.
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