Friday, January 8, 2010

Ok so...help advice..fast?

So my boyfriend is in a play and he has to kiss a girll....and ugh i feel...idk... i'm not near himr ight now i'm like 2 hours away and he kissed the girl tonight in the play..and i'm realy jealous like..just thinking that iw asnt the last one that he kissed...idk...i feel horrible..help?


and on top of that i keep flipping out on him...i just ugh!!:(Ok so...help advice..fast?
yeah...i wouldnt be too happy either... tell him youre upset. maybe it wouldnt bug you so bad if he knew why you were flippin. if he doesnt understand that...he's a jerk and you deserve better!Ok so...help advice..fast?
i would probably be feeling the same way.


Talk to him about it and make sure he didnt feel anything for this girl.


good luck!
yeah i use to have the same problem whn my ex was an acctress and thats y shes an ex
SO what? its a play... actors kiss actresses some times... doesnt mean anything. its called 'acting', which is all fake... just get over it. he chose you for a reason, so what if he kissed a girl in a play? quit spazzing out on him if you want to keep him
A character on stage is one thing, an actual person is another. Being in a lot of plays where I have to play a romantically involved person (while having a boyfriend at the same time), I noticed that one doesn't even think about anything except performing on the stage. There are absolutely no romantic feelings for that scene partner offstage.





I can assure you that your boyfriend is probably the same. It's natural to feel a tinge of jealousy, but just remember that it's you who he calls, and you who he talks to at night. It's you who he loves; the character he plays on stage has no say in his relationship with you.
Well I'm a guy, but I really understand how you feel and it would be hard for me too explain why. I know it sucks, but don't do anything crazy. Try not to think about it at all, that's really all you can do. :(
u know i'd feel the same but u cant be like that being like that might ruin a good thing u have going for u. i know its hard but is it worth losing him over something he might not even be doing? just calm down and relax.
OMFG i cant even believe you are asking this! Its no big deal! a kiss? what does that mean NOTHING!!! Its not like shes giving him oral sex~!!!
I understand how u feel. I think you are feeling a normal feeling that just means you care about him and you want his lips only on yours! Don't listen to those telling you that its just a kiss and your being silly...You are not being silly. However, since it was a kiss in a play and he wasn't going out on you than try not to be so hard on him. It will cause ur relationship with him to fail. This is something that you really need to think about. Can you handle him doing this..If you can not than yu may need to find a different boyfriend. I hate to say that but I mean you cant go round miserable. Think long and hard and decide if you can handle this if it happens again. If you decide you don't want to lose him than please deal with it as best you can and try not to give him a hard time. Best of luck to you!
If you really trust him and you truly believe that he wouldnt cheat..quit freaking out. He's just doing his job.

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