Dad I have something I want to tell you, something you should know, I am Bisexual.NEED advice please help me with?
So much depends on your age. Are you still living at home? Do you depend on their finances for school? Have your folks shown any anti gay attitude?
I wish you had written here before. I would have suggested calling PFLAG.ORG for info to present to your dad. You can still do that if you go to their website and download some pamphlets. That way you'll be able to share some info with them and if there is a chapter near you, it's a great place to help them adjust to your news. It is a loving supportive org that helps families and friends be better at staying close.
Please take some info for your dad. It will help.Not all parents have a good reaction to the news. I would have also suggested that if you still lived at home that you have some gay adult friends in your corner, have a safe place to go if the coming out goes badly, and to also have a bag packed just in case. I wish you well. Coming out can be frightening but once you're out, the big weight has been lifted off your shoulders. (I came out at 27-- knowing I was different but got married anyway and it was a bummer. I went to the gay center in my city and came out feeling so much more alive.) I wish you a good day and a happy coming out with your dad. Have a great life.
oh gosh, i feel for u, that's not gonna be easy!
NOT guaranteeing he won't act the way u dnt want him to anyway, but maybe u should start by reminding him of the times he said u were his little boy and that he loved u no matter what. U should ask him whether he meant it, and as a reply to his answer say that u r both about to find out. then break it to him.
oh man, best of luck!! hope he turns out a cool dad :) (...)
Maybe telling him in a public place, isn't a good idea. You never know how he's gonna react. But if you do tell him, just sit down with him, and just make the conversation go towards the subject of sexuality, ease him into it, then just say the words ';I'm bi';.
Good luck.
just be straight foward. tell him youd like to tell him somthing you think he should know. youll feel better once you get it off your chest. he may see you in a completely different way , but you are what you are and can only do so much. so ya be open and go in with guns blazin
what worked for me and my friend was....
i told him about this amazing movie i watched called ';prayers for bobby'; and they get interested
expainwhat it's abot and say it really meant a lot to you
then they wll ask ifur lgbt.... if they dont then just say it as it is
before you talk to him, do y our homework first. Go to this website and have some facts and numbers ready to give him. You will be amazed!
www.g0ys.org (that is spelled with a zero not an ';o'; )
Good luck.
Yeah I would just start a nice conversation. Then once you feel the time is right you can tell him.
I know this is what everyone else said but that is the best way.
Good Luck and Hope I Helped!!!
My advice would be to tell him while your at home, because you don't know what his reaction will be. But just say you have to talk to him about something important in private. Then just tell him. Good luck!
Find the right words, if you want to tell him it means you trust him.
Since you do, tell him that... Get into his heart as you go out.
Just tell him straight out and flat, with no Hmmmms and AHHHHS.
just start up a nice convo first. Then later break it to him. He should love you enough to not care
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